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Tell Me the Truth About Love
Tell Me the Truth About Love
Sep 29, 2024 5:30 AM

Author:Susanna Abse,Susanna Abse

Tell Me the Truth About Love

Brought to you by Penguin.

Drawing on over 30 years of therapeutic encounters with people facing hurdles in their love lives, former Chair of the British Psychoanalytic Council Susanna Abse takes us deep inside one of the most fascinating realms there is: other people's relationships.

Candid and captivating, each chapter is inspired by a classic, timeless story. Parents blow their straw house down; Rapunzel yearns for companionship but remains trapped in her castle. Couples strive to navigate the fall from Eden, the bitter taste of the poison apple and strangers in their beds.

From dealing with infidelity to navigating our changing role within a single relationship over the course of a lifetime, Tell Me the Truth About Love sheds vivid light on the human heart, and its struggle to both embrace life's greatest gift and protect itself from pain. Inside, you will find solace, wisdom and unparalleled insight into how, and why, we love.

'A must-read for everyone wanting to understand more about what makes us fall in - and out - of love' Philippa Perry

A charming, useful, kind book about the pains and hopes of relationships' Alain de Botton

© Susanna Abse 2022 (P) Penguin Audio 2022

Reviews

Brilliant and touching

—— Maggie O'Farrell

'A must-read for everyone wanting to understand more about what makes us fall in - and out - of love'

—— Philippa Perry

'A charming, useful, kind book about the pains and hopes of relationship'

—— Alain de Botton

'This wonderfully wise book would give anyone reading it insight and inspiration on the importance and complexity of our love relationships. Susanna writes with clarity and warmth in a voice that is steeped in decades of experience and means we trust her. Her gentle humour is also a joy.'

—— Julia Samuel

'Powerful, masterful, insightful. With every turn of the page I learnt more about people and their relationships and, ultimately, about myself'

—— Annalisa Barbieri

'Tell Me the Truth about Love is a compelling and thoughtful book which anyone who is interested in the dynamics of romantic relationships should read. Abse is a psychoanalyst so her approach is reflexive, and the complex learnings that couples make during therapy with her seem to unfold in real time. This is not a book about quick fixes. It is a book that demonstrates that no couple is "able to meet each other's desires completely, but the relationship exists in the trying.'

—— Suzi Godson

'The inner lives of couples fascinate us. We wonder what goes when we sense trouble and heartache. Susanna Abse shows how therapists turn hurts, and misunderstandings into longed for deeper connections.'

—— Susie Orbach

'Did you happen to marry a prince or a princess who eventually turned into a frog? For anyone who has ever experienced a spousal disappointment or a marital explosion, this masterpiece by Susanna Abse, written in a compelling style with compassion and warmth and humour, provides us with truly brilliant insights about the complexities of couple psychology. This might be the best book ever about the art and the anguish of human relationships.'

—— Professor Brett Kahr

Gripping ... a powerful call for change in how we live with, love, understand, treat, and think about each other

—— Rebecca Solnit, author of Men Explaining Everything To Me

Christie Watson is fierce, funny and endearingly frank in her fantastic new memoir

—— Jacqueline Wilson

Christie Watson is deliciously funny and candid about life as a perimenopausal woman in all its (sweaty) glory. A book to gift sisters, mothers and friends

—— i, *Christmas Gift Guide 2022*

How does Christie Watson do it? No-one depicts with greater wisdom and tenderness the unruly, bewildering, mercurial gorgeousness of the human body. I adored this book

—— Rachel Clarke, author of DEAR LIFE

Generous notes from the heat of female experience. Read it with a sigh of relief and gratitude

—— Diana Evans, author of ORDINARY PEOPLE

I loved it... Hilarious and necessary. Should be required reading for anyone over forty!

—— Francesca Segal

I love Quilt on Fire! I feel very seen. Christie Watson captures the chaos and uncertainty of midlife exactly... A hilarious romp at times, Quilt on Fire is also a moving and insightful exploration of a transformational inner journey... A joyful book that celebrates our journey back to who we are - women who dare to fly in colour

—— Kathryn Mannix, author of WITH THE END IN MIND

Funny, honest, liberating and wise - Christie Watson has written the equivalent of a laugh-until-you-cry conversation with a best friend

—— Jess Kidd, author of THINGS IN JARS

Hilarious, heartfelt and deeply moving, Christie has written a manifesto for all those of us who need to rediscover a life worth loving. A must-read

—— Kate Bowler, author of EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

A rallying cry for all those confused by their forties, Watson captures midlife with typical fearlessness, humour and style. Her writer's eye never looks away from the truth but seeks only to illuminate it. Every woman should read this book

—— Sarah Langford, author of IN YOUR DEFENCE

Unsettling and life-affirming, funny and sad, unflinchingly honest and incredibly moving, this is a bloody marvellous book, fired with the realisation that love is the only thing that matters, in the end

—— John Sutherland, author of BLUE

Sensational and so necessary. I really needed this book and I definitely won't be the only one. Women everywhere will weep with gratitude

—— Tiffany Atkinson, author of LUMEN

Raw and real and laugh-out-loud funny. So timely... Quilt on Fire is like a supportive friend reaching out a hand, saying it will be okay

—— Karen Angelico, author of EVERYTHING WE ARE

In this bold and beautiful memoir, the author of The Language of Kindness turns her gift for writing to the nub of things to the emotional chaos of midlife; the terror at the changes it wreaks, but also its strange power to deliver clarity. Having weathered this turbulence myself, I think it's the truest account of perimenopause I have yet read

—— Caroline Sanderson , Bookseller

[A] sharp, hilarious, gritty perimenopause memoir - a book for any woman drowning in the uncharted seas of midlife

—— Daily Telegraph, *Summer Reads of 2022*
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