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Sep 21, 2024 9:47 PM

Author:Natascha McElhone

After You

Natascha McElhone, star of The Truman Show and Californication, was filming in LA, seven months pregnant with her third child with her other two young children playing in the gym across the road when she got a call from a friend that would change her life forever. Her husband, Martin, the love of her life and father to her delightful children and an apparently healthy man in his early 40s had died suddenly of a heart attack.

In the weeks and months that followed the devastating shock Natascha continued to write her diary and letters to Martin (something she had always done as, due to her work, she was used to being far from home). They were letters of love, letters about their gorgeous boys, letters about the birth of the new baby and diary entries detailing the mundane and heartbreaking details of her new life: house repairs and terrifying family finances; trying to keep the children's lives as normal as possible in the face of such abnormal new circumstances.

The result is a powerful, honest and moving story of a magical love affair and all-consuming grief, of being a mother alone and trying to live for the future.

Reviews

Straight-talking

—— Sunday Times

Miracles are her business

—— Jodie Foster

She achieves what, to hard-pressed parents, seem like miracles

—— Mail on Sunday

With style and wit Jean Carper has assembled all the simple things that people can do to delay the onset of age-related memory loss, an idea that may sound revolutionary to some, but is all research-based. My advice is simple: Read this book!

—— Norman E. Rosenthal, M.D., Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, Georgetown Medical School

Fantastic... a darkly witty guide through the birthing hut

—— New York Magazine

Tired all the time? Fed up arguing about chores? Spousonomics says applying some economic rules will transform your relationship...according to the authors, [using] economic theories can be a powerful tool to making your marriage successful.

—— Daily Mail

A brilliant and innovative book.

—— A. J. Jacobs, author of The Know-it-All

Practical, compelling and hilarious

—— Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project

Frank, funny, insightful and disconcertingly apt, this book transposes the laws and theories of economics onto emotional relationships with daring but effective aplomb.

—— Easy Living Magazine

Jane Shilling is an excellent writer...this is detailed, personal and memorable

—— William Leith , Evening Standard

The essay form, with its drifts and lurches, suits Shilling's purposes perfectly as she catalogues her experience of middle-ages confusion and loss... all with detail, nuance, enthusiasm and care

—— Ian Sansom , Guardian

The usual stereotypes about grumpy old women are jettisoned in favour of ironic and nuanced observations about sexuality, identity and death in this crisply written memoir about middle age

—— Benjamin Evans , Daily Telegraph

An honest midlife memoir of ageing, false expectations and unrealised dreams

—— Michael Binyon , The Times

Detailed, personable and memorable

—— William Leith , Scotsman

Her story may not be unusual, but the elegance and range of her writing most certainly is. The journey is a delight

—— Daily Telegraph

Fans of this beautifully crafted, critically acclaimed memoir of middle-age might well take the view that it should be distributed free on the NHS to all women over 50... a penetrating analysis of the challenges and heartaches of life's middle phase

—— Katherine Whitbourn , Daily Mail

Shilling casts a self-critical eye over the events that have shaped her life

—— Emma Hagestadt , Independent
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