Author:Hephzibah Anderson
Like most women, Hephzibah wants to find love. But she has just turned thirty and she's single- again. Looking back on her twenties, the years seem a blur of parties and flings. Being footloose and fancy free was supposed to be fun, but somehow it kept ending in tears. Now she wonders- where was the romance?
This is a story about rediscovering romance. Forget the fly-by-night cads and unreturned calls, Hephzibah decides. Bring on old-fasioned flirting and the art of courtship. So, she takes a year off sex to find love.
She sips cocktails in Manhattan with a dark-eyed musician, and encounters unexpected temptation back in London.
Her quest has life-changing consequences when, after all, she discovers romance is still alive and well.
This memoir of notches not carved is surprisingly readable, displaying a melancholy tenderness and candid self-awareness rarely found in confessional writing ... Chastened feels like a genuine attempt to find a solution to a loveless life, and articulates the thoughts of many single women with a purposeful freshness
—— Ariane Sherine , ObserverHer book is tender, clever, heartbreaking and funny ... every single woman and man should read it before even thinking of going on a date again
—— Katy Guest , Independent on SundayFascinating, revealing and bravely honest work...Anderson focuses on the much-maligned concepts of love, courtship and the intimacies of chastity
—— Paul Blezard , The WeekIn the course of this sexless year, she flirts, texts and (platonically) romps her way through innumerable encounters...however with Chastened you get what it says on the cover: no Sex in the City
—— Melanie Mcgrath , The ScotsmanChastened is more than fashionable dinky. One hopes that Anderson will write the novels that are evidently within her
—— IndependentMuch ado about nothing...but comic and honest piece written by Anderson herself
—— John Crace/Anderson , The GuardianThoughtful and insightful. Anderson manages to avoid the expected clichés and monotony by offering a considered combination of autobiography, psychology, feminist history, anthropology and sociology in her writing
—— Susan Swarbrick , Sunday HeraldThe elegant prose is meandering and poetic... [Anderson] imparts her wisdom with accessible and informative references
—— Immodesty Blaize , Guardianthis candid account.. raises questions from a world more shocked by 'chastity' than 'pole dancing'
—— Emma Hagestadt , IndependentThis honest account is a real eye opener
—— Star MagazineHeart-warming memoir which will strike a chord with women everywhere from the first page. If your love life is jaded and you want to turn things around, this will inspire you
—— The SunA bedroom confessional for the thinking girl, written with novelistic flair and offering that unbeatable diary-peeking thrill. Every woman will find herself here.
—— Stephanie Cross , Daily Mail[A] beautifully written memoir
—— Financial TimesA gifted storyteller with a mastery of Western literature, Nafisi knows how to use language both to settle scores and to seduce. Her family secrets pour forth in a flood of revelations of anger, humiliation and deceit
—— The New York TimesAn utterly memorable book
—— Guardian WeeklyAll readers should read it
—— Margaret AtwoodEnthralled
—— Susan SontagThis is a remarkable insight into a fascinating period of history, and a touching portrait of astonishing tenacity and integrity in the face of adversity that few in the Western world could imagine
—— Good Book GuideA balanced, lucid narrative; a rich, complex account of this crucial part of Iranian history
—— ObserverA powerful memoir of Nafisi's Iranian childhood, her mother and a homeland shattered by political revolution
—— The Times