Author:Ethan Kross,Ethan Kross
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'This book is going to fundamentally change some of the most important conversations in your life-the ones you have with yourself.' - Adam Grant, bestselling author of Give and Take
Malcolm Gladwell, Susan Cain, Adam Grant, and Daniel H. Pink's Next Big Idea Club Winter 2021 Winning Selection
One of the best new books of 2021 - BBC Science Focus Magazine, The Washington Post, CNN Underscored, USA Today, Shape, Behavioral Scientist, People, PopSugar * Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and Shelf Awareness starred reviews *
As featured in Apple's 'Best Audiobooks of 2021 so far'!
Turn your inner voice from critic to coach
We all have a voice in our head. We tune into its endless chatter to look for guidance, ideas and wisdom. Except sometimes, this voice leads us down a rabbit hole of negative self-talk and endless rumination.
These silent conversations are so powerful they can sink our mood, trip us up and even impact our health. How can we take back control? This is the question award-winning psychologist Ethan Kross set out to answer twenty years ago when he began an audacious mission - to study the conversations we have with ourselves.
In Chatter, Kross interweaves cutting-edge science with real-world case studies to explain how these inner conversations shape our work and relationships. Then he reveals the tools you need to harness your own voice so that you can be happier, healthier and more productive.
Brilliantly argued and expertly researched, Chatter will explain how the conversations we have with ourselves shape our lives, and will give you the power to change them.
Completely fascinating... it's already changed my life
—— Chris EvansAre there right and wrong ways to communicate with yourself, and if so, are there techniques that might usefully be employed by those with inner voices that are just a little too loud?...Kross has found answers to some, if not all, of these questions...[Chatter] could hardly be published at a more opportune moment.
—— Rachel Cooke, The GuardianFresh and riveting, Chatter is a masterpiece-a landmark book that will change the way you think about human nature. Ethan Kross is one part sage, one part mensch, and one part world-class psychological scientist. When I need advice, it's Ethan I call. Now, through Chatter, everyone has a chance to learn about their inner voice from among the wisest people I know. Required reading for all.
—— Angela Duckworth, #1 New York Times bestselling author of GritSo accessible and informative - a fantastic addition to our understanding of our mind, and how it emphatically changes our day for good or bad.
—— Julia Samuel, psychotherapist and bestselling author of Grief Works and This Too Shall PassEthan Kross isn't just a world-renowned scientist, he's an expert storyteller too. In Chatter, he shows why our inner voice is indispensable, and reveals how we can master it. Urgent, lucid, and compelling, Chatter is the groundbreaking and transformative book the world needs now.
—— Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Quiet and Quiet PowerI've demonstrated throughout my career how negative thoughts can spiral and undermine people's success. In Chatter, Ethan Kross weaves cutting-edge science with riveting stories to reveal the tools people can use to manage these experiences. Chatter is a truly compelling and valuable book.
—— Carol Dweck, author of MindsetChatter isn't just thought provoking - it's thought transforming.
—— Apple Books ReviewThis book is going to fundamentally change some of the most important conversations in your life - the ones you have with yourself. Along with being a pioneering psychologist and neuroscientist, Ethan Kross is an unusually gifted writer and storyteller. He shows that instead of trying to silence your monkey mind, you can learn to educate it, motivate it, and even reason with it.
—— Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Give and Take, Originals, and Option BI talk to myself. And so do you. Yet this remarkable capacity for introspection can sometimes lead us astray. Ethan Kross has written the definitive work on how to redirect our inner voices away from rumination and self-criticism and toward reflection and self-improvement. Chatter is a profound and practical book-one that will leave you with both a fresh understanding of yourself and new strategies to live a fuller life.
—— Daniel H. Pink, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Drive, To Sell is Human, and WhenStimulating . . . Kross, the director of the University of Michigan's Emotion & Self Control Laboratory, debuts with an eye-opening look at managing 'the silent conversations people have with themselves'.
—— Publishers Weekly (starred review)[A] fascinating narrative, fluidly written and packed with insight. . . . [Kross] shows us how we might have better chats with ourselves, ones that make us happier, healthier, and more productive. . . . A book that will truly change minds.
—— Kirkus Reviews (starred review)Ethan is a deep and original thinker and a thorough, always thought-provoking researcher. He's one of the psychologists whose work I always read whenever I see his name.
—— Maria Konnikova, bestselling author of The Biggest BluffA practical, useful guide to quieting one's inner noise.
—— BooklistEthan Kross illuminates and solves the crucial issue of mastering self-talk in this modern classic. Compulsively readable and refreshingly original, Chatter will help you win the argument with yourself.
—— Dave Evans, bestselling author of Designing Your Life*Best books of January 2021
—— Apple Books*10 books to read in January 2021
—— Washington Post*A notable book of 2021
—— Behavioral Scientist*Best new wellness books of January 2021
—— Shape MagazineA gorgeous open-hearted read but also a vital, instructive one
—— Caroline Sanderson , BooksellerA raw, heartbreaking, uplifting memoir about reinvention, being a woman and love in all its forms. An important book, beautifully written
—— Kate Davies, author of In at the Deep EndAlexandra Heminsley understands what it is to be a woman in a world that judges us, our bodies, and the experience of these bodies, in every way and at all times... Charting her journey to her own body through loss, heartache and trauma, alongside love, friendship and hope, she suggests that each of us might find our own way to embody our deepest truths, and that we might do so with generosity to others on their own journey
—— Stella Duffy[Heminsley] writes with unflinching clarity
—— Brian Morton , Tablet[An] insightful memoir
—— Joanne Finney , Good HousekeepingBracingly honest...big-hearted... [and] page-turningly compelling
—— Holly Williams , ObserverSome Body To Love is an honest and thoughtful memoir that touches on difficult contemporary topics . . . Incredibly moving and very, very powerfu
—— MonocleA powerful treatise on pain and love, this is an honest, moving and authentic examination of the end of a relationship, and the way our lives can fracture and recover from sudden, seismic shifts. Heminsley's writing is sharply resonant - you don't have to share her experiences to be struck by her observations about letting go with love, and how we can find strength in self-love too
—— SheerLuxe, *Books of the Year*I wish I had saved The Shapeless Unease to read in isolation but Samantha Harvey’s book about insomnia, time, death and so many unknowable things is a blessing to have in lonely times. It is a profound and stunning book but funny, too.
—— Fatima Bhutto , Evening StandardA beautiful, jagged little book about insomnia and so many unknowable things: life and death, Buddhism, and how language alters our thinking. But I was most struck by its form and structure.
—— Fatima Bhutto , New Statesman[Samantha Harvey's] cerebral, startlingly clear account of somehow pulling through [from insomnia] carries an electric charge and meditates on not only the mystery of sleep but also writing, swimming and dreams.
—— Net-a-Porter[The Shapeless Unease] is beautifully crafted and its achievement makes itself more apparent on a second reading.
—— Richard Gwyn , Wales Art ReviewA masterpiece, so good I can hardly breathe. I'm completely floored by it.
—— Helen MacdonaldThis book seems appropriately messy-haired and wild-eyed... Anyone who has lain awake the night before a big test will recognize such manic flourishes. Harvey captures the 4 a.m. bloom of magical thinking; stories proliferate within stories... To read Harvey is to grow spoiled on gorgeous phrases.
—— Katy Waldman , New Yorker