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Diary of a Wartime Affair
Diary of a Wartime Affair
Sep 22, 2024 9:22 AM

Author:Doreen Bates

Diary of a Wartime Affair

'Unflinchingly honest... this diary is exceptional' Elizabeth Buchan

'Tuesday 23 October, 1934

Another glorious sunny day. Lunch in Kens Gdns. E had not slept well "as I longed and longed for you". It made me happy that he wanted me. I suppose that is mean. He said, "I could pick you out in the dark from fifty women . . ." '

The diary of Doreen Bates is a candid, spellbinding portrait of a gutsy young woman working in London in the years before and during the Second World War, as well as an extraordinary account of her long affair with an older, married colleague - one that brazenly challenged the strict conventions of the day.

'Startlingly frank and readable' David Kynaston

'Absolutely engrossing' Virginia Nicholson

'Astute, passionate, remarkably intimate, showing us the day-to-day picture of a long relationship' Guardian

Reviews

An extraordinary book, and profoundly challenging to all one's notions of that era. To read about a normal, educated, sensible, middle class working woman of the 1930s, literate, musically aware, a fan of art and history, who makes moral decisions that would seem more at home in the swinging sixties, or much nearer than that to our own day, is quite amazing.

—— Julian Fellowes

Diary of a Wartime Affair by Doreen Bates does what it says, essentially a tale of the Blitz and fucking (her 1940s word, not mine), in a startlingly frank and readable way

—— David Kynaston , Guardian Books of the Year

Fascinating... I found [Doreen's] sophistication, startling modernity and sexual/emotional ups and downs absolutely engrossing. Doreen is a great character. She's a natural writer, with intriguing self-awareness, and persuasive insights on so many things: nature, food, romance, art... Above all, I loved her appetite for life and physical pleasure, and her lack of shame. It is extraordinary, the way she has stepped outside the conventional morality of her time. I am delighted Doreen Bates's diary is seeing the light of day

—— Virginia Nicholson

The explosive story of Bates's long affair with her colleague, William Evans, is recorded in the remarkably frank wartime diary that is finally published this year...

—— Daily Mail Book of the Week

An unusually exact view of private life in the 1930s and 40s ... as seen through the eyes of an unusually intelligent witness: she is astute on questions of pacifism and is a passionate observer of nature. More important, it allows us a remarkably intimate window on to the complexities of a particular relationship... there aren't many diaries of this kind

—— Guardian

A fascinating period piece

—— Sunday Express

A remarkable record of private life in the years between 1934 and 1941 ... recounted with a precision and feeling that might break your heart. But it's droll and candid too ... a treat for anyone interested in the sturm and drang of life during wartime

—— Anthony Quinn , Observer

I absolutely loved it

—— Sarah Waters

Exceptional…Eger became a friend of Viktor Frankl…and The Choice is a wonderful companion piece to his classic memoir Man’s Search for Meaning. Both books are full of hope…and leave you marvelling at the resilience of mankind

—— Daily Express

One of the most incredible [stories] I’ve ever read – and one you must read too

—— Sun

It will inevitably be filmed. Read the book first

—— The Observer & Guardian online

Rocket-fuelled inspiration

—— Psychologies

Deeply moving...extraordinary insight...It is not surprising that, when Eger speaks, her audiences are roused to give her a standing ovation. For they are not only honouring Edith Eger but also the triumph of the human spirit.

—— Jewish Chronicle

Important...gripping...a universal message of hope.

—— Philip Zimbardo, author of , The Lucifer Effect

A beautiful memoir, reminiscent of the great works of Anne Frank and Viktor Frankl. But it is more than a book—it’s a work of art. It gave me goosebumps, the kind that grace you in transcendent moments of appreciating a Mozart sonata, an Elizabeth Barrett Browning sonnet, or the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel

—— Adam Grant, New York Times bestselling author of GIVE AND TAKE, ORIGINALS, and OPTION B with Sheryl Sandberg

Edith Eva Eger is my kind of hero. She survived unspeakable horrors and brutality; but rather than let her painful past destroy her, she chose to transform it into a powerful gift – one she uses to help others heal.

—— Jeannette Walls, New York Times bestselling author of The Glass Castle

This warm, compassionate and truly extraordinary book is much more than a remarkable Holocaust survivor story. It is at heart an examination of the human spirit and how it can be helped to survive after trauma. Like Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl, a more important book for our times is hard to imagine.

—— The Bookseller

Compelling and irresistible. A genuine, honest-to-goodness life-changer.

—— Good Housekeeping

Inspirational

—— Express

Powerful ... hard to put down.

—— Choice Magazine

Comparisons to Man's Search for Meaning are natural but this work has the potential to be even more bold.

—— Michael Berenbaum, Former Project Director, US Holocaust Memorial Museum

The distressed fabric of the author's traumatic past becomes a beautiful backdrop for a memoir written with integrity and conviction...A searing, astute study of intensive healing and self-acceptance through the absolution of suffering and atrocity.

—— Kirkus Reviews

[Night Sky with Exit Wounds] is delicate, intimate and political.

—— Deborah Levy

Sometimes, I think of it as a song cycle; sometimes, a book of poems; sometimes, an epic. Vuong puts himself at the centre of this collection in an astonishing way, even as he is also entirely willing to set himself aside.

—— Alexander Chee , Frieze

Ocean Vuong’s Night Sky With Exit Wounds... is beguiling and sublime.

—— Diana Evans , Guardian

Vuong's voice is unique and inspires empathy.

—— Eva Waite-Taylor , Independent

Beautiful... [Night Sky With Exit Wounds] is pretty special.

—— Francesca Hayward , Observer

I loved Dadland for its tenderness, humour and candour. It has begun to open the door for me to what may well lie ahead in my life, in so many of our lives, in terms of ageing parents. And it has also taught me something deeply moving about tolerance, and about love

—— Robert Macfarlane

A wonderful, haunting and beautifully written memoir... I found myself laughing out loud at times and, at others, unable to hold back the tears... An absolutely stunning book

—— James Holland

Dadland has the weight of family love but fizzes along in accessible and dynamic prose, highly recommended

—— Andrew McMillan

A mesmerising performance by a natural storyteller gifted with the most seductive material possible, in the wild and wonderful life of her exasperating Irish father. Pain and annoyance is transmuted into pure narrative gold, as Keggie Carew interrogates the legend of this wartime adventurer and the bitter comedy of his domestic relationships and his late decline. A brave, risk-taking tale that alarms, delights and moves. As soon as you come to the end, you want to start again, to see if those things really happened

—— Iain Sinclair

You love these people from the first page ... As Tom's life falls apart memory by memory, Keggie is picking it up again and her storytelling is spell-binding. Effortlessly readable, this is a delight combining laughter - and tears, yes, quite a few of those.

—— Connexion

Compelling

—— Charlotte Heathcote , Daily Express

A moving memoir-cum-biography.

—— Molly McCloskey , Irish Times

By some margin my Book of the Month... A detective story, a family history, a thrilling tale of derring-do, and the most distinctive and affecting memoir I’ve read since H is for Hawk.

—— Bookseller

Utterly remarkable, and beautifully evoked… Dadland is a completely riveting, deeply poignant “manhunt” for which I predict great things.

—— Bookseller

Dadland, by Keggie Carew, is being tipped for award-winning breakout success in the vein of H is for Hawk

—— Jon Coates , Sunday Express

It’s an exorcism, ghost-hunt and swim through the archipelago of her father’s shattered self… The author’s descriptions have an easy lyricism.

—— Ed Cripps , Times Literary Supplement

The old question 'what did you do in the war, Dad?' has never had a more surprising or moving answer.

—— David Hepworth

Warm and funny, sometimes regretful and sad, but overall a read like a rollercoaster. Wonderful.

—— Western Morning News

You know the saying that everyone has a book in them? Well, unless your book is as good as this, I'd give up right now

—— Daily Mail , Markus Berkmann

You know the saying that everyone has a book in them? Well, unless your book is as good as this, I’d give up right now… This gripping book, written with real verve and a narrative expertise that wouldn’t shame a veteran.

—— Sally Morris , Daily Mail

A brilliant, bittersweet biography.

—— Cornelia Parker , Observer

Keggie’s writing is immersive… She writes with a warmth and generosity about her father, a man who was a genuine character and hero.

—— Paul Cheney , Nudge

Dadland is deeply personal. But it is also the story of our generations: people touched by war and by Alzheimer’s

—— Charlotte Heathcote , Daily Express
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