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F*** You Very Much
F*** You Very Much
Oct 9, 2024 1:23 AM

Author:Danny Wallace

F*** You Very Much

You're not imagining it. People are getting ruder. And this is a serious problem.

The book that inspired the iTunes Top Ten podcast

Did you know that even one rude comment in a life and death situation can decrease a surgeon’s performance by as much as 50%? That we say we don’t want rude politicians, but we vote for them anyway? Or that rude language can sway a jury in a criminal case?

Bestselling writer and broadcaster Danny Wallace (Yes Man, Awkward Situations For Men), is on a mission to understand where we have gone wrong. He travels the world interviewing neuroscientists, psychologists, NASA scientists, barristers, bin men, and bellboys. He joins a Radical Honesty group in Germany, talks to drivers about road rage in LA, and confronts his own online troll in a pub.

And in doing so, he uncovers the latest thinking about how we behave, how rudeness, once unleashed, can spread like a virus – and how even one flippant remark can snowball into disaster.

As insightful and enthralling as it is highly entertaining, F*** You Very Much* is an eye-opening exploration into the worst side of human behaviour.

"A cry for human decency… deliciously hilarious. I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately." Adam Grant author of Originals, Give and Take, Option B

*This book was originally published under the title, I Can’t Believe You Just Said That. But we decided it just wasn’t rude enough...

Reviews

A brilliant book

—— Jon Ronson

A very funny and wise book about the blatant rudeness that surrounds us. Danny Wallace on top form

—— Matt Haig

A meaty cry for human decency, wrapped in a deliciously hilarious hot dog bun. I plan to read it again and then force-feed it to my neighbour, my mother, and my college roommate. If you care about people and enjoy a good laugh, I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately.

—— Adam Grant, author of 'Originals'

Hilarious

—— GQ

Danny Wallace, author, actor, and comedian, wrote the rudeness manifesto itself.

—— VICE.com

His [Danny Wallace’s] research on the psychology of rudeness can give us key insights as to what's going on right now and what we can do to become more empathetic

—— Psychology Today

The real thing here is not the cause of death, but the nature of the life. Black is genuinely moving about the respect we should have for the dead … There is much to admire in this book.

—— Scotsman

Poignant and thoughtprovoking… it is the book’s humanity which will connect with readers.

—— Scottish Daily Mail

Let [Sue Black] take you by the hand and lead you on a journey which will inspire your awe and devotion … A wonderful surprise of a book.

—— Brian Masters , The Tablet

Most of us are terrified of death, but Sue Black shows us that death is in fact a wondrous process, intimately tied with life itself. Written with warmth and humanity, All That Remains reveals her life among the dead, who can surely count her as their best friend.

—— Tess Gerritsen

Many crime readers delight in the disgusting, the dark and the dangerous. Black’s reverence for human remains and her fearless intimacy with death in its many guises may well be a necessary antidote.

—— Literary Review

Sue Black has been intimately involved with the aftermath of death for her whole professional career and in her book she weaves in details of her amazing and active life with her analysis of death in a narrative that is personal, touching, occasionally tragic but also instilled with her wonderful sense of humour.

—— Dr Richard Shepherd, Consultant Forensic Pathologist

Dame Sue Black writes about life and death with great tenderness but no nonsense, with impeccable science lucidly explained, and with moral depths humanely navigated, so that we can all feel better about the path we must all inevitably follow. I am genuinely glad I read this book.

—— Lee Child

Compelling, brave and extremely accessible.. A must for anyone who thinks about the basics of living and dying. And there are jokes as well.

—— Rachel Joyce

No scientist communicates better than Professor Sue Black. All That Remains is a unique blend of memoir and monograph that admits us into the remarkable world of forensic anthropology.

—— Val McDermid, award-winning author of THE MERMAIDS SINGING

Where on earth would the world be without Sue Black?

—— Kirsty Gunn , Scotsman

Editor's Choice: An enthralling book about forensic science and the many faces of death.

—— Caroline Sanderson , The Bookseller

Professor Black’s elegant exploration of death crafts a bridge that allows us, the living, to journey into her mesmerizing world. Her intimate examination of each layer and facet of death, is both intelligent and tender. Through her unflinching eye, we come to understand that life and death are indeed two parts of a continuous whole and that there is much insight to be gained if we approach each of these with curiosity rather than fear.

—— Dr Rana Awdish, author of In Shock

All That Remains provides a fascinating look at death - its causes, our attitudes toward it, the forensic scientist's way of analyzing it. A unique and thoroughly engaging book.

—— Kathy Reichs, author of TWO NIGHTS and the Temperance Brennan series

If you ever wondered about the life of a forensic anthropologist, Sue Black reveals the truth behind the TV screens.

—— Val McDermid, award-winning author of THE MERMAIDS SINGING

A beautifully written memoir full of reflections on the deaths of strangers and family members.

—— Oliver Thring , Sunday Times

She often finds herself dealing with the most macabre cases of murder. But the no-nonsense Scot is an upbeat character with a dry sense of humour, clearly identifiable in her memoir.

—— Hannah Stephenson , Daily Record

Ideal reading if you're a cheerful soul who likes to think about death. And think how it'll brighten your conversation on holiday.

—— The Times

Books of the Year

—— The Times

Best of the Year: Memoir
This book captures the profundity of human life while displaying a sense of humour, and peels back the skin to reveal a world few of us ever discover

—— The Sunday Times

Dame Sue Black, the woman who inspired the hit television show Silent Witness and has done for forensic science what Strictly has done for ballroom dancing, is an unlikely but deeply worthy national treasure.... Black's memoir, like her story, is curiously vibrant and life-affirming.

—— Alex Massie , Scottish Field

You can't help but warm to this retired professor of anatomy and forensic anthropology who chose "the many faces of death" as her medical speciality, yet is herself so vividly alive. Like [David] Nott, Black travelled the world at times, sifting maggots, bullets and human body parts in war zones. Despite it all, she remains convinced that our humanity transcends the very worst of which our species is capable.

—— Rachel Clarke author of forthcoming Dear Life

As well as recounting a crime this text provokes its readers to think about human obsession and greed about the fate of avian species which, by an accident of plumage, have vanished from the earth. I warmly recommend this unusual, rich book.

—— Trout & Salmon Magazine

A gripping natural-history detective story. Was Rist a cunning con-artist who more or less got away with the perfect, albeit clumsy crime? Or was he hopelessly addicted to feathers, to his hobby, and to his status as a young fly-tying protégé without the economic means to realise his dreams and potential?

—— Caught by the River

This well written account of the known facts is well worth a read

—— birdwatch Magazine

It was hard to put the book down… Read it yourselves, enjoy it and learn from it!

—— British Birds
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