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Five Hundred Years of Friendship
Five Hundred Years of Friendship
Oct 2, 2024 10:29 AM

Author:Thomas Dixon,Thomas Dixon

Five Hundred Years of Friendship

Friendships, for many of us, are at the very centre of our daily existence and identity. Yet it hasn't always been this way. Our modern view of what makes a friend is shaped by centuries of political and social upheaval. In this landmark study, Dr Thomas Dixon considers both the differences and similarities between friendships in history and those we experience today.

Now we tend to view friendships among children as a good thing, but did you know that in the 18th and 19th century they were seen as fraught with danger? Or that the Bible heavily influenced early companionship? Beginning with the social networks of the 16th century, Dr Dixon moves through history to examine the invention of the best friend, working class Friendly Societies, dogs as 'man's best friend', and the tragic impact of the First World War on male friendships. Finally, we look at how the old and the young are navigating friendships today, and how friendship might look in the technologically-enhanced future. This fascinating and surprising history provides a unique look at how human companionship has changed through the ages - and what comes next.

Reviews

A remarkable oral history of black postwar British life… Homecoming is an extraordinary and compelling book in which the memories of bus drivers, civil servants, engineers, nurses, RAF and army recruits, teachers, shop stewards and seamstresses jostle with those of journalists, musicians, novelists and poets... The recovered memories in Homecoming are a formidable challenge to those still nostalgic for a lost empire, to all who cling to narrow and parochial definitions of Britishness... The voices in Homecoming sing throughout the book but they also reverberate pain, for so many are recounting stories they do not want to remember.

—— Hazel V Carby , Daily Telegraph

Grant is the writer to do justice to [the Windrush Generation’s] lives… he has conducted dozens of interviews, dug into the Mass Observation archives, and combed through semi-forgotten oral histories from the 1960s to produce this anthology of submerged lives that prickles with beautiful, comic and brutal details.

—— Sukhdev Sandhu , Observer

Homecoming by Colin Grant is...by turns sad, painful, warm, revelatory and utterly fascinating. I think we would live in a slightly kinder and better country if everyone read [it].

—— Mark Haddon , New Statesman *Books of the Year*

Drawing on scores of first-hand accounts, Colin Grant offers oral history at its finest.

—— Bel Mooney , Daily Mail

Hundreds of first hand interviews, archive footage and memoir extracts of the Windrush Generation, beautifully edited into a patchwork quilt of experience and heritage. It's so powerful hearing these voices direct, making for a hopeful and angry, joyful and tear-jerking read.

—— Grazia

[Grant] lets people speak for themselves… there is much to enjoy. Some of the memories are painful, some are joyous, others are much more ambivalent.

—— Clive Davis , The Times

The Windrush generation’s voices are rarely heard, but Grant’s anthology is informative and funny, a well-researched window into a vanished world.

—— Sarah Hughes , i

[An] impressive work of oral history.

—— BBC History

Colin Grant has interviewed and collected nearly 200 voices from [the Windrush] era, from all walks of life, including policemen and fascists. It's quite a feat.

—— Bernardine Evaristo , i Newspaper

The structure of Homecoming gives its subjects space to speak for themselves, with each vignette providing a glimpse into little known history… Grant’s collection of voice…exposes effectively the cruel logic of Britain’s legacy of domination.

—— Renni Eddo-Lodge , Guardian

Interesting and nuanced.

—— Literary Review

[A] superb oral history… Interspersed with social commentary and pages of sprightly autobiography.

—— Ian Thomson , Tablet

In Homecoming… Colin Grant collates fragments from several hundred interviews, first-hand and archival, with a cross-section of Caribbean immigrants to Britain from the 1940s and early 60s, and allows his subjects to speak for themselves in idiosyncratic statements that refuse to be co-opted into a generalized account of immigrant experience… A fascinatingly varied tapestry emerges of why people came, what they made of it when they got here, and how they related both their Caribbeanness and their blackness.

—— Lloyd Bradley , Times Literary Supplement

Homecoming is an important book which records the voice of a generation as they fade into history... here we can listen to that generation telling its story in its own words.

—— Richard Hopton , Country & Town House

[Homecoming] artfully break the silence surrounding these unheralded lives [of the Windrush generation] and is essential reading for those who wish to know and honour them

—— Sara Collins, author of THE CONFESSIONS OF FRANNIE LANGTON , Guardian

An extraordinarily detailed and diverse portrait of the Windrush generation through oral histories

—— Reader's Digest

This is a first global history of Europe's most famous and durable dynasty, chronicling its exploits with great panache over nearly a millennium of rule across wide swathes of the continent and beyond. His text is accessible and entertaining, his ready wit providing a delectable counterpoint to the notorious humourlessness of so many of the dynasts he examines.

—— Robert Evans, Regius Professor of History Emeritus at the University of Oxford

An engaging combination of fast-flowing narrative and insightful analysis.

—— Tony Barber , Financial Times

Its pleasures are slow, cumulative and utterly absorbing, it would be the perfect choice for a holiday with long stretches of reading time… A wonderful meditation on the half-truths and half-lights that make up our understanding of a life

—— Lucy Lethbridge , Tablet, *Summer reads of 2019*

An absolute masterpiece. A book bursting with love – love lost and love found, love misunderstood, unsaid and denied. I was spellbound by Laura Cumming’s warm, intelligent, searching voice and her intense scrutiny of images to reveal the unexpected and make us think again. I am in complete awe. A beguilingly lovely book – as big as the sea

—— Keggie Carew, author of Dadland

An absolutely utterly transfixing narrative which I could hardly bear to leave in order to go to sleep at night and which I could not wait to wake up to in the morning, writing of such sublime beauty that I delighted in page after page, and above all a story of such emotional power, not only about Laura’s mother, but also about Laura herself, that sometimes I found myself putting my copy down just to take a moment to breathe

—— Juliet Nicolson, author of A House Full of Daughters

An intricately structured and perfectly written swirl of memoir, history and art: the prose equivalent of beautifully marbled paper. I adored it

—— Adèle Geras

A true masterpiece: an unveiling of family secrets written in prose of the utmost beauty, and an astonishing act of filial love. Read it!

—— Jonathan Coe

Exquisitely written, compelling and painful

—— Amanda Craig

[An] intriguing and beautiful book… Cumming summons a novelist’s skill, making it impossible to stop reading the unravelling story. Every chapter ends with a new discovery, or the potential for one, and right up to the very last page the serpentine revelations twist like an anaconda

—— Sue Gaisford , Tablet

Haunting, luminous and revelatory… one of the best memoirs in recent years

—— Sarah Hughes , i, *Best books of 2019*

[A] compelling, beautifully written book… Chapter by chapter, Cumming slowly pieces together an authentic portrait of her ancestors, a paean dedicated lovingly to her mother

—— Jackie Annesley , Daily Mail

Extraordinary… It is a scrupulously, luminously empathic book, and the work of a masterful storyteller

—— Stephanie Cross , The Lady

A remarkable new book, which blends mystery, memoir, art criticism and Lincolnshire history… The story may be unique but the themes are universal

—— Yusef Sayed , Lincolnshire Life

A profound and beautiful book… Cumming illuminate the darkness of secrets, shame and betrayal and their effects in a riveting book

—— Kirsty McLuckie , Scotland on Sunday

[An] excellent mystery memoir

—— attitude

The story, beautifully written, is enriched by Cumming’s skill at making pictures speak

—— Mark Mazower , Financial Times

On Chapel Sands is as compelling as any detective novel of the golden age. The rigour and pace of the writing, its themes of mistaken identity, confinement and sexual deceit are reminiscent of Josephine Tey

—— Nancy Campbell , Times Literary Supplement

Laura Cumming writes very beautifully and I take real pleasure in the prose

—— Jacqueline Wilson , Time & Leisure

On Chapel Sands is beautifully written, immersive and moving – and it’s one of the finest books of the year

—— Will Gore , Spectator

A haunting investigation into family trauma and secrets from a forgotten England that turns out to lie closer to the surface than anyone suspected. Turning detective, she [Laura Cumming] interrogates old snapshots with the forensic skill of a professional art critic

—— Mark Mazower , New Statesman, *Books of the Year*

On Chapel Sands starts by seeming to be about one kind of mystery but soon starts being about another, much more profound one… the subtlety and suspense of the narrative lies in the way Cumming allows details about their relationship to emerge slowly, like a photograph socking in developing fluid

—— Bee Wilson , London Review of Books

With her critic’s eye, Cumming turns detective to investigate who took her mother and tell a pacy story about relationships, pride and the ramifications of what goes unsaid

—— Susannah Butter , Evening Standard, *Books of the Year*

In a year strong in ingenious memoir, Laura Cumming’s On Chapel Sands…stood out, not just for its great storytelling but for Cumming’s wonderful ability to bring to life a Lincolnshire coastal community…its moods, characters and toxic secret-harbouring machinery

—— Claire Harman , Evening Standard, *Books of the Year*

This beautifully written memoir of family mystery proved one of the surprise hits of 2019

—— James Marriot , The Times, *Books of the Year*

[A] twisting literary mystery that also serves as a deeply moving love letter

—— Claire Allfree , Metro, *Books of the Year*

A complex story of family secrets, beautifully written, and illustrated

—— Craig Brown , Mail on Sunday, *Books of the Year*

A beautiful, multi-layered story full of lost love, human motivation and tender secrets

—— SheerLuxe

[A] bewitching blend of history and mystery

—— Charlotte Heathcote , Daily Mirror

A scrupulous work of storytelling, radiant with empathy and filial affection

—— Hephzibah Anderson , Observer
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