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How Do You Want Me?
How Do You Want Me?
Oct 7, 2024 2:33 AM

Author:Ruby Wax

How Do You Want Me?

Sunday Times Bestseller

With a brand new introduction for 2020.

How Do You Want Me? is critically acclaimed as brutally honest, vivid and gripping.

Ruby Wax's unflinching revelation of a childhood poisoned, and a youth spoiled, culminates in a moving account of her breakdown and recovery. But How Do You Want Me? is also funny, rude and irreverent. It's unusually honest about fame and celebrity and happy to burst ego-balloons and golden myths.

A brilliantly fast, furious and surprising read from the inimitable Ruby Wax.

Reviews

Hilarious and affecting

—— YOU Magazine

A dark and dazzling memoir. Waist-deep in vitriol ... but funny

—— Sunday Telegraph

An insightful part-memoir, part-exploration, which swings from hilarity to heart-rending sadness

—— OK! Magazine

An extraordinary and brave book that simultaneously provokes both gales of laughter and tears

—— Woman and Home

Completely jaw-dropping

—— Lynn Barber , Telegraph

Way above most celebrity memoirs. Ruby leaves no stone unturned in her brutally honest journey of self-discovery and she writes beautifully. Look no further for a good holiday read

—— Bella

Witty and engaging

—— Saturday Express

A heartbreaking work of staggering genius

—— Rachel Johnson , Spectator

Will provide plenty of laughs

—— She

Magnificently written

—— Vanessa Feltz , Daily Express

Illuminating . . . deftly gathers in the connections . . . In 288 pages, Tunbridge gives us detail enough to create a rounded portrait . . . She makes us marvel at Beethoven all the more

—— Fiona Maddocks , Observer

You don't have to be a music scholar to enjoy this brilliant, and pleasingly concise book. But, if you don't love Beethoven, both the man and his music, when you start, you should by the time you finish

—— Roger Alton , Daily Mail

Cuts straight to the action . . . Tunbridge balances the traditional narrative of universal, timeless genius, of innovation before its time, with a pragmatic, jobbing musician working hard to make a living

—— Alexandra Coghlan , Spectator

Compact but also rewarding...a lot of information is packed into her musical portraits

—— Richard Fairman , Financial Times

Laura Tunbridge finds something fresh to say about Beethoven by looking at his life through nine pieces... An entertaining way to celebrate the great man's 250th birthday

—— James Marriott , Sunday Times Books of the Year

A twinkling elucidation of concert life in Vienna... fluent, concise and engaging

—— Paul Griffith , Times Literary Supplement

Laura Tunbridge, in her new biographical study, has found an elegant way to give Beethovenian heroism and struggle its due, while slyly plucking at the reverse of Solomon's martial banner... Each chapter delivers its little shock of correction

—— James Wood , London Review of Books

Laura Tunbridge offers a timely portrait of the composer in an elegant biography . . . refreshingly, [she] focuses on the man rather than the myth. Knowledgeable and humane, this is a deeply sympathetic portrait of a turbulent musical genius

—— Jane Shilling , Daily Mail

Tunbridge never stints on musical description, nor compromises her admirable rigour, while her prose is vivid, crystal-clear and never less than fascinating . . . a wonderfully rewarding book

—— Jessica Duchen , Classical Music Magazine

Beautifully written, warmly-accessible, fascinating

—— BBC Music Magazine on Singing in the Age of Anxiety

Thought-provoking, superb

—— Classical Music on Schumann’s Late Style

Subtle and extensive

—— The New York Review of Books on Singing in the Age of Anxiety

Fascinating

—— Roger Parker, King's College London on Singing in the Age of Anxiety

Important, beautifully written, fascinating

—— Susan Youens, University of Notre Dame on The Song Cycle

Consistently perceptive critical acumen

—— Kenneth Stilwell , Nineteenth-Century Music Review on Schumann’s Late Style

Original, superbly done, beautifully written

—— Susan Youens, University of Notre Dame on The Song Cycle

Illuminating

—— Classical Music on The Song Cycle

Abdurraqib, known for his playful, intelligent sense of humor on Twitter, highlights amazing performances that shed light on societal constructions and moments of sheer joy his book about Black culture in America. Writing about joy is challenging; falling back on cliche is a constant temptation that Abdurraqib avoids in this insightful tome

—— Forbes

That sense of limitlessness wraps itself around every essay in Abdurraqib's newest book, A Little Devil in America: Notes in Praise of Black Performance. In it, he writes about Black performance in America-from Great Depression-era dance marathons to the enduring cool of Don Cornelius to the art of Mike Tyson entering a boxing ring-with both great reverence and rigorous analysis. The book, in the way Abdurraqib's work so often does, erects monuments to our should-be legends and our unignorable icons alike, and paints an expansive, deeply felt portrait of the history of Black artistry

—— Leah Johnson , Electric Literature

This deft consideration of seemingly irreconcilable values, between the personal and private dimensions of performance, can be found throughout the essays in A Little Devil in America...Abdurraqib sees performance as a site of radical questioning, experimentation, and dream-making. This book is not a work of theory. It is sensual. We watch him watching his idols and we watch him dancing along with them, sometimes clumsily. If Brooks's goal is to make a case for performers' intellectualism, Abdurraqib's is to help us understand how they teach us to live richer, more embodied lives

—— Danielle A. Jackson , Vulture

Engrossing and moving ... A new, poetic take on essays that, I think, changes the game in many ways.

—— Roger Robinson , New Statesman Books of the Year

Astonishing, impressive ... the connections he makes point to the enduring influence of Black art ... a book as bold as it is essential

—— TIME Book of the Year

Abdurraqib writes with uninhibited curiosity and insight about music and its ties to culture and memory, life and death, on levels personal, political, and universal.

—— Booklist (starred)

A towering work full of insightful observations about everything from the legacy of Nina Simone to the music of Bruce Springsteen... a powerful work about art, society, and the perspective through which its author regards both.

—— Electric Literature

A joyful requiem - emphasis on joyful. Abdurraqib has written a guide for the living as well as a memorial for those we have lost.

—— Los Angeles Review of Books

As powerful and touching as anything I've read this year, and Abdurraqib has emerged as the Ta-Nehisi Coates of popular culture.

—— James Mann , The Big Takeover
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