Author:James O'Brien
'Simply Brilliant' THE SECRET BARRISTER
'Passionate and brilliantly argued' DAVID OLUSOGA
'An admirably personal guide' MARINA HYDE
'Smart, analytical, self-aware and important' ALASTAIR CAMPBELL
THE INTIMATE, REVEALING NEW BOOK FROM THE AUTHOR OF THE BESTSELLING, PRIZE-WINNING HOW TO BE RIGHT
There's no point having a mind if you're not willing to change it
James O'Brien has built well over a million loyal listeners to his radio show by dissecting the opinions of callers live on air, every day. But winning the argument doesn't necessarily mean you're right.
In this deeply personal book, James turns the mirror on himself to reveal what he has changed his mind about and why, and explores how examining and changing our own views is our new civic duty in a world of outrage, disagreement and echo chambers. He writes candidly about the stiff upper lip attitudes and toxic masculinity that coloured his childhood, and the therapy and personal growth that have led him question his assumptions and explore new perspectives. Laying open his personal views on everything from racial prejudice to emotional vulnerability, from fat-shaming to tattoos, he then delves into the real reasons -- often irrational or unconscious -- he holds them.
Unflinchingly honest, revealing and funny, How Not to Be Wrong is a tonic for a world more divided than ever and a personal manifesto for a better way of thinking and living.
Because after all, if we can't change our own minds we'll never really be able to change anyone else's.
A model of lucidity, humour and humanity - we should be thankful that we have him
—— Times Literary SupplementSimply brilliant ... Its calm but brutal honesty makes for compelling reading. This book is needed now more than ever
—— The Secret BarristerJames is more right than ever -- particularly in our entrenched, binary thinking culture -- about the importance of being able to admit to being wrong
—— David BaddielAn admirably personal guide to the lost art of changing your mind. James showed me how often a change of mind is really a change of heart
—— Marina HydeThe conscience of liberal Britain
—— New StatesmanHighly personal and confessional, yet also a passionate and brilliantly argued appeal against the dangerous tribalism of our times
—— David OlusogaClassic James O'Brien - smart, analytical, self-aware and important to public debate at a time the toffs in power are taking it into the sewer
—— Alastair CampbellI know few broadcasters as consistently, forensically, brilliant as James O'Brien
—— Emily MaitlisBlending profound self-reflection with genuine warmth... the perfect book for a loud world that seems more divided than ever
—— John Amaechi OBESuch verbal ability seems like a superpower
—— The TimesAn exceptional broadcaster with a peerless ability to calmly point out the absurdity of certain viewpoints
—— GuardianDisarmingly honest about where he has been wrong, this book is a refreshing reminder of our ability to change our minds
—— Susanna ReidFar and away the best thing he has ever written -- indeed, a kind of deconstruction of everything he has written and said, or at least propounded. A series of reflections on various topical themes that doubles as a memoir, almost a mea culpa, about the psychological origin of his opinions, and of the force and certitude with which he used to wield them.
—— New Statesman Book of the YearA beautiful account of the universal love affair between mothers and sons. Justin Webb's acute observation of his eccentric, emotionally-repressed mum is full of love and generosity and will give hope to parents' everywhere.
—— Justine Roberts, Founder and CEO, MumsnetA brave and emotional book
—— Simon Garfield, author of The Age of InnocenceJustin Webb's memoir is unique: for its style, acute observation, and the combination of being unflinching and written with love.
—— Mishal HusainJustin Webb's vivid childhood memoir reads like a collection of scenes from cherished sitcoms of his youth. A life spent under the spell of eccentric "ineffably snobbish" mother Gloria and "stark staring mad" stepfather Charles is part Keeping Up Appearances and part Reggie Perrin. Webb writes about it all with wit and fondness but beneath the surface lurks a great deal of heartbreak ... Webb has always seemed unflappable on the airwaves. These entertaining soul-searching memoirs help to explain his ability to keep calm and carry on.
—— Allan Hunter , Daily ExpressHe may have one of the bestknown voices in Britain as the longest-serving presenter of Radio 4's Today programme, but it turns out he is a wonderful writer, too.
This superb memoir stops just as Webb joins the BBC and is an immaculate portrait of a certain type of middle-class upbringing in the 1970s ... To those of us of, um, a certain age, one of the joys of this warm, generous book (significantly, dedicated to his stepfather as well as his mother) is the detail of life in that extraordinary decade - nipping off with a packet of Players No6, cider at 70p a gallon, listening to Fire by Arthur Brown or watching Tomorrow's World where 'chaps in ill-fitting suits tried to explain new-fangled devices called computers'. A pleasure to read.
One of the best biographies of the year: a surprisingly upbeat and witty 'misery memoir'.
—— Robbie Millen , The TimesThe world's poor and dispossessed could have no more articulate or insightful a champion
—— Kofi AnnanAn accessible and exceptional humanitarian
—— Jon Snow , New StatesmanSen is one of the great minds of both the twentieth and twenty-first centuries. We owe him a huge debt
—— Nicholas SternA distinguished inheritor of the tradition of public philosophy and reasoning - Roy, Tagore, Gandhi, Nehru ... if ever there was a global intellectual, it is Sen
—— Sunil Khilnani , Financial Times