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In the Family Way
In the Family Way
Oct 8, 2024 3:27 PM

Author:Jane Robinson

In the Family Way

Only a generation or two ago, illegitimacy was one of the most shameful things that could happen in a family.

In the Family Way tells secrets kept for entire lifetimes: long-silent voices from the workhouse, the Magdalene Laundry or the distant mother-and-baby home. Anonymous childhoods are recalled, spent in the care of Dr Barnardo or a Child Migration scheme halfway across the world.

There are sorrowful stories in this book, but it is also about hope: about supportive families who welcomed 'love-children' home, or those who were parted and are now reconciled. Most of all, In the Family Way is about finally telling the truth.

Reviews

An important social history tracked through personal stories that need to be heard, and will soon be beyond memory. They are not all harrowing. Compassion breaks through the stony ground

—— Daily Telegraph

The great surprise in Jane Robinson's new history of mid-century illegitimacy is how long these opinions - the children may be blameless, but assisting them would mean condoning the intemperance of their mothers - persisted. Robinson has made contact with 100 unmarried mothers and their progeny and deftly interweaves their stories with the political and institutional history

—— Observer

A tragic litany of society's readiness to blame the most vulnerable for their own misfortunes . . . In the Family Way is full of heart-wrenching stories of young women kept in ignorance of the facts of life. Robinson has a good eye for the human story and the affecting detail that brings alive the hypocritical moral landscape of the period

—— Sunday Times

Robinson's mix of official data and personal anecdote is powerful and persuasive

—— Independent on Sunday

Robinson has worked to give back a voice to those not traditionally allowed one . . . Taken together, the individual stories of secrecy and enforced separation form a powerful testament to the hypocrisy and cruelty of our culture

—— Independent

[In the Family Way's] heart is firmly in the right place. It is a book that makes a woman want to reach for an AK47 to avenge the past; or at the very least to buy a copy to politicize their daughters

—— Melanie Reid , Times

The closer Robinson's survey comes to our own day, the more shocking it grows . . . In the Family Way is not, incidentally, without its funny side. I particularly enjoyed this

—— Mail on Sunday

Jane Robinson has managed to elicit over 100 personal accounts of illegitimacy and it is these letters and interviews that give the book its force - that, and the author's manifest warm-heartedness. The book is grounded in testimonies from real people - heartbreaking, some of them

—— Melanie McDonagh , Spectator

In the Family Way is both engaging and incredibly moving and will strike a profound chord with many readers

—— Sunday Express

Riveting . . . Part of the book's charm is its subtle interweaving of personal accounts with astute historical analysis

—— BBC History Magazine

Incredibly touching . . . Robinson reveals family secrets kept for entire lifetimes. Full of poignant memories of illegitimate children brought up between WW1 and the 1960s, this is an elegant and compassionately written examination, with a thought-provoking sting in its tail

—— Family Tree

I am one of the women written about in Jane Robinson's In the Family Way. I was put in one of the homes by a mother who cared more about what the neighbours thought than how I would feel when she was taken away from me for adoption. They were awful times and Jane has done a great service by writing this book. So many people I have spoken to recently did not even know these places existed, but to myself and all the other young mothers involved they will never be forgotten. Thank you Jane for exposing it for all to see!

—— Pauline Roberts (Amazon Review)

Robinson discovered many older people still damaged by being or bearing an illegitimate child. They swamped her with testimonies, but it is telling that almost all of the 100 interviewees asked to remain anonymous

—— Telegraph, Best Non-Fiction Books of 2015

A compassionate history

—— Telegraph

An accomplished and original account of an extraordinary and much misrepresented episode in Italian history. Catherine Fletcher provides a newly sympathetic portrait of a monarch whose rule in Florence was even more unlikely than Henry VII’s presence on the English throne

—— Professor Diarmaid MacCulloch, author of A History of Christianity

An unexpected box of delights

—— Caroline Murphy, author of Murder of a Medici Princess

Fletcher charts Alessandro’s meteoric rise and bloody fall while bringing Renaissance Italy into sharp focus by deftly contrasting its simultaneously sublime and visceral natures, drawing us into an intriguing, believable Florence along the way

—— Catholic Herald

Terrific … maintains a standard that all history books should aim for

—— BBC History Magazine

There are few periods in history as spectacular as the Italian Renaissance, and this fascinating biography of the comparatively obscure Florentine Duke Alessandro de’ Medici is a positive riot of vivid incident and intrigue.’

—— Simon Shaw , Mail on Sunday

A creditable and enjoyable history of one of the lesser known Medici… It is a story of nepotism, intrigue, murder, lust, spying, double crossing and political and religious power grabbing… Well researched; Fletcher has a good eye for detail and discerning credible witness testimony from contemporary accounts…. lively and entertaining and accessible to the casual reader, as much as the student of the period.

—— Paul Burke , Nudge

Like all great story tellers, Varoufakis’ literary flair is not just a function of stylistic prowess. He gets right inside the fears, desires and external constraints of the key players in the complex history of the Eurozone … Reading And The Weak Suffer What They Must? is like reading a gripping thriller. It is a page turner because the plot itself is a relentless sequence of astonishing twists and turns driven by the cunning ingenuity and hubristic folly of its key protagonists … This book is not just illuminating. It is a call to moral awakening and to intelligent, determined and humane political action

—— Open Democracy

Beautifully illustrated… [It] overflows with entertaining detail.

—— Robbie Millen , The Times

Tinniswood uses lively local detail.

—— Lindsay Duguid , Times Literary Supplement

[It] combines a panoramic view of life and architecture in the interwar years with pin-sharp detail and the sort of springy prose that comes with complete command of the material.

—— London Review of Books

This is a lively and hugely entertaining history… It’s packed with very funny anecdotes… A delight.

—— Mail on Sunday

Tinniswood paints a vivid portrait of the period

—— Jonathan Wright , Catholic Herald

A detailed and appreciated look at the phenomenon [of country houses]… Tinniswood writes elegantly, in complete charge of his material. The book is a joy to hold in your hand.

—— Spears Wealth Management Survey

Wittily written and beautifully illustrated, Tinniswood’s book recreates a world far more peculiar, but at times rather more enviable, than any fictional version.

—— David Horspool , Guardian, Book of the Year

[A] compelling volume of social history.

—— Daily Mail, Book of the Year

[A] brilliant book about life in the English country house.

—— Rachel Cooke , Guardian, Book of the Year

A scandal-packed glimpse into the glamourous Downton Abbey-esque world of English country houses… ****

—— Love it!

A probing psychological account.

—— Very Rev. Professor Iain Torrence , Herald Scotland
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