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Love and Lies
Sep 22, 2024 6:37 PM

Author:Clancy Martin

Love and Lies

For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer: love and lies have always been the most intimate of bedfellows.

And Clancy Martin – divorced twice, married three times – is no stranger to either.

With help from Plato, Machiavelli, Raymond Carver and Pinocchio, here he explores the entanglements of love, truthfulness and deceit. First, unrequited, lasting or misguided – love always goes hand in hand with secrets, and it’s time we started being honest about our lying.

Reviews

This is a strange and hauntingly intelligent book. To read it is to see new and unsettling complexities in our most cherished relationships, as well as to understand a little better the subtle workings of our own deceitful minds

—— Oliver Thring , Sunday Times

A philosophical memoir with juicy details and an aching sense of loss and yearning—in other words, something entirely strange and new from a wounded lover of the truth

—— Walter Kirn, author of Up in the Air

Perhaps paradoxically, this is one of the most honest books I have read about love

—— Simon Critchley, author of The Book of Dead Philosophers

Read this book if you really want to know some of the scary truths about love--or even if, like me, you have attained the ideal of pure, truthful, transparent love... Martin writes philosophy the way I wish all philosophers would: with humor, wit, and style

—— Akhil Sharma, author of Family Life: A Novel

Love and Lies is a delight to read

—— Michael Washburn , Boston Globe Sunday

One cannot but admire Martin’s panoramic reading and his effortless summoning of philosophers past and present to bear witness

—— Elspeth Barker , LIterary Review

It is often claimed that philosophers 1) write badly 2) do not write about important problems that ordinary people face and 3) only raise questions and never provide answers. This book is beautifully written, deals with love and sincerity, and is genuinely useful

—— Gerald Dworkin

Brilliant, powerful, and provocative, Against Empathy is sure to be one of the most controversial books of our time

—— Daniel Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness

Bloom's point is a good one ... In a time of post-truth politics, his book offers a much-needed call for facts

—— Economist

A deliberately maverick work – astringent, provocative, often witty and unabashedly against a prevailing culture ... I am staunchly with Bloom

—— Salley Vickers , Guardian

A brilliant, witty, and convincing defence of rational generosity against its pain-feeling detractors. Read this book and you will never think about empathy, goodness, or cold- blooded reason the same way again

—— Larissa MacFarquhar, author of Strangers Drowning

Plaudits to Bloom for speaking up, not only against the overemphasis on empathy, but also in favour of reason. Bloom takes readers on a stimulating tour of current research in psychology, mixed with some older philosophy, that will educate and entertain readers. A wise and important book.

—— Peter Singer, author of The Most Good You Can Do

Invigorating, relevant and often very funny

—— The New York Times

An interesting and highly topical work of moral philosophy by psychologist … about the ancient conflict between reason and emotion, science and sentiment … an important book

—— Bryan Appleyard , Sunday Times

Compiles evidence from a range of sources to show that empathy can be innumerate, biased, parochial and inconsistent and can push us towards inaction at best and racism and violence at worst

—— Guardian

Paul Bloom’s wonderfully humane, lucid and entertaining demolition of the empathy-worshippers… is a brave and necessary tract for the times

—— Paul Bloom , Irish Independent

In Against Empathy, Bloom provides a thoughtful, considered, empirically grounded case which challenges many notions that we often accept as good without really thinking them through… Against Empathy is a wonderfully argued, provocative polemic against the trend to see empathy as an unalloyed good

—— Kenan Malik , New Humanist

Superforecasting by Philip Tetlock and Dan Gardner, is one of the most interesting business and finance books published in 2015.

—— John Kay , Financial Times

The lessons of superforecasting are keenly relevant to huge swathes of our lives.

—— Matthew Syed , The Times

Tetlock writes boldly about wanting to improve what he sees as the bloated, expensive – and not terribly accurate – intelligence apparatus that advises our politicians and drives global affairs.

—— City A.M.

Philip Tetlock’s Superforecasting is a common-sense guide to thinking about decision-making and the future by a man who knows this terrain like no one else.

—— Books of the Year , Bloomberg Business

Tetlock and Gardner believe anyone can improve their forecasting ability by learning from the way they work. If that's true, people in business and finance who make an effort to do so have a lot to gain – and those who don't, much to lose.

—— Financial Post

What I found most interesting was the continuous process of integrating new information to test and modify existing beliefs … clearly a beneficial skill in financial markets

—— Citywire

Social science has enormous potential, especially when it combines 'rigorous empiricism with a resistance to absolute answers.' The work of Philip Tetlock possesses these qualities.

—— Scientific American

A fascinating book.

—— PR Week

Offers a valuable insight into the future of management.

—— CMI Management Book of the Year judges

Both rigorous and readable. The lessons are directly relevant to business, finance, government, and politics.

—— Books of the Year , Bloomberg Business

A scientific analysis of the ancient art of divination which shows that forecasting is a talent.

—— Books of the Year , Economist

Captivating . . . [Tetlock's] writing is so engaging and his argument so tantalizing, readers will quickly be drawn into the challenge . . . A must-read field guide for the intellectually curious.

—— Kirkus Reviews

A top choice [for best book of 2015] among the world’s biggest names in finance and economics . . . Eurasia Group founder Ian Bremmer, Deutsche Bank Chief U.S. Economist Joe LaVorgna, and Citigroup Vice Chairman Peter Orszag were among those giving it a thumbs-up.

—— Bloomberg Businessweek

Just as modern medicine began when a farsighted few began to collect data and keep track of outcomes, to trust objective 'scoring' over their own intuitions, it's time now for similar demands to be made of the experts who lead public opinion. It's time for evidence-based forecasting.

—— Washington Post

Tetlock and his colleagues [have] found that there is such a thing as foresight, and it’s not a gift that’s bestowed upon special people, but is a skill that can be learned and developed . . . To obtain this apparent superpower does not take a PhD or an exceptionally high IQ; it takes a certain mindset.

—— Guardian

Superforecasting is a very good book. In fact it is essential reading - which I have never said in any of my previous Management Today reviews . . . It should be on every manager's and investor's reading list around the topics du jour of decision-making, prediction and behavioural economics.

—— Andrew Wileman , Management Today

Read Philip Tetlock’s Superforecasting, instead of political pundits who don’t what they’re talking about.

—— Dominic Cummings

We should indeed apply superforecasting more systematically to government. Like systematic opinion polling, it is an aid to decision-makers and informed debate. It is ideologically neutral, unless you have a bias in favour of ignorance. This is all good.

—— Andrew Adonis , Independent
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