Author:Nancy Friday
This is a book about men who love women. But it is not a collection of love stories. It is a study of the secret, erotic fantasies that men have always kept hidden, a taboo-shattering investigation that reveals the deepest, most conflicting feelings that men have about women, men and their own sexuality.
Men in Love goes beyond the socio-sexual cliché of woman seen as either madonna or whore to reveal the conflict of love and rage at the centre of men's emotions and erotic desires. Based on thousands of candid responses from men ranging from their teens to their sixties, Men in Love - startling and shocking - will change men's deepest feelings about their sexuality and make the women who care about them understand them as never before.
A labour of love for all humankind. Nancy Friday is still on the cutting edge
—— Houston ChronicleBrilliant. Courageous. Moving
—— Washington PostNancy Friday - guru to a generation of feminists
—— Daily MailA clever, compassionate woman ... Women need people like Friday to write the script for them - Janet Street-Porter
—— Sunday TimesNancy Friday has never shied away from hot-button topics
—— Salon.comNancy Friday must be the most understanding sexologist in the country
—— San Francisco ChronicleOne of the most accurate and detailed descriptions of modern power ever written
—— Guardian on Adults In The RoomVaroufakis has the greatest political virtues of all – courage and honesty
—— The TimesOne of my few heroes. As long as people like Varoufakis are around, there still is hope
—— Slavoj ZizekSuperbly written ... he was – and is – right
—— Martin Wolf, Financial Times, on Adults in the RoomAn outstanding economist and political analyst
—— Noam ChomskyAstonishing … a reflection on the nature and meaning of power in our times
—— Open Democracy on Adults In The RoomThe Thucydides of our time
—— Jeffrey SachsIn these secular meditations, Knausgaard scratches away at the ordinary to reach the sublime – finding what’s in the picture, and what’s hidden
—— Rodney Welch , Washington PostKnausgaard is an acute, sometimes squirmingly honest analyst of domesticity and his relationship to his family.
—— Lisa Schwarzbaum , Newsweek EuropeVery intimate and full of love
—— Belfast TelegraphI am impressed by his responsiveness, the nuanced intelligence with which he speaks.
—— Kate Kellaway , GuardianCourageous and inspirational, without a wasted word
—— KirkusWhat he makes me see is how the personal is a possession and that this is especially true for everyone involved in the Bataclan tragedy because the personal was – and still is – in danger of being swamped by the public story of international terrorism.
—— Kate Kellaway , ObserverHe had deliberately retreated from the world that was talking incessantly about the slaughter… If Antoine refused to give his hate to the men who killed his wife and so many others, he also refuses to give them space in his life and that of his now two-year-old son.
—— Joe O'Shea , Belfast Telegraph MorningHe looked at the words on the screen as the news networks competed to find words to describe the events: massacre, carnage, bloodbath. He wanted to scream, but couldn’t because of Melvil… Initially resistant to spending time with fellow mourners, Antoine discovered that there is a kind of brotherhood, a feeling of recognition, that can provide consolation.
—— Cathy Rentzenbrink , Pool[A] beautifully written memoir… It’s the hardest book you can pick up this year, but also the most affecting.
—— GQIt is a personal account of the aftershock following the atrocity. Yet there is no gore, no torture, no scene-setting, no facts putting the Isis-claimed retaliation in context, no second-hand reports of what happened inside the theatre… Instead, it is simple and immediate, and is all about love and loss… This book may also be Leiris’s way of just holding it together. One feels he is writing as the man he was before that November day that changed everything… It is the literary equivalent of smelling her clothes every night before attempting to sleep.
—— Helen Davies , Sunday TimesA book for our times.
—— Mark Lawson , Guardian, Book of the YearThis book is a love song to Hélène, a promise to Melvil and a resolution not to be defeated by chaos and barbarity. It is a stunning mission statement.
—— Claire Looby , Irish TimesThis heartbreaking and beautifully written memoir lays bare the terrible chronology of grief, but it is also a testimony to the power of love and hope.
—— Jane Shilling , Daily MailIt’s an agonising account of those first few days, in which the lives of father and son changed forever. Despite the haste with which it was written, every word is chosen with care and charged with meaning, a raw and honest memoir of grief which can’t fail to move all who read it.
—— Alastair Mabbott , Herald Scotland