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My Better Half and Me
My Better Half and Me
Nov 20, 2024 1:34 AM

Author:Rosemary Ackland,Joss Ackland

My Better Half and Me

Rosemary Ackland began writing her diary in 1945, aged just fifteen. For the next fifty-eight years, through happiness and heartache, she continued to write. Even after the tragic onset of Motor Neurone disease, which left her mute and immobile, her diary was still an outlet - in fact, then more than ever.

Her simple, heartfelt jottings were never intended for an audience. But, during her last days, as he helped her hold a pen, her husband Joss read her words for the first time. Deeply moved by her lifetime's recollections he asked her consent to publish them and she agreed.

My Better Half and Me weaves together Rosemary's diaries with Joss's commentary to tell of an extraordinary love story that lasted over fifty years. Their life together was remarkably full. At first they lived on a shoestring, struggling to bring up their new family on just Joss's payas a young actor. Once his career took off their lives became a dynamic whirl of tours across the country. But they remained an extremely close-knit family, with lives shaped by their seven children, by the tragic, untimely death of their eldest son, and later, by the birth of their grandchildren.

Above all, this intimate and candid story, shows how lucky they were to have each other. In turbulent times they were each other's rock. Theirs was truly and old-fashioned romance.

Reviews

simple, astonishingly moving

—— The Sunday Times

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—— Evening Standard

His commonsense attitude is credited with saving the sanity of parents around the world

—— Express

A Lucid Dreamer is sensible, readable, and sympathetic to its subject, without disguising his faults.

—— Graeme Richardson , Times Literary Supplement

A Lucid Dreamer offers a sympathetic and accurate biography of the man in a book that traverses some pretty strange territory without loosing either its sense of humour or its respect for its subject.

—— Sean O’Brien , The Sunday Times

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—— Blake Morrison , Guardian

Imagine Montaigne as a thoroughly modern unmarried mother and freelance journalist living in south London... Everywhere there is detail, and nuance, and care about others, and about words

—— Guardian

Shilling is brave and endearingly frank

—— Scotsman

An intelligent discursion on what it means to be a no-longer-youthful female in a world obsessed with staying young ... Her thoughts are refreshing, provocative and a pleasure to read

—— Metro

Jane Shilling is an excellent writer...this is detailed, personal and memorable

—— William Leith , Evening Standard

The essay form, with its drifts and lurches, suits Shilling's purposes perfectly as she catalogues her experience of middle-ages confusion and loss... all with detail, nuance, enthusiasm and care

—— Ian Sansom , Guardian

The usual stereotypes about grumpy old women are jettisoned in favour of ironic and nuanced observations about sexuality, identity and death in this crisply written memoir about middle age

—— Benjamin Evans , Daily Telegraph

An honest midlife memoir of ageing, false expectations and unrealised dreams

—— Michael Binyon , The Times

Detailed, personable and memorable

—— William Leith , Scotsman

Her story may not be unusual, but the elegance and range of her writing most certainly is. The journey is a delight

—— Daily Telegraph

Fans of this beautifully crafted, critically acclaimed memoir of middle-age might well take the view that it should be distributed free on the NHS to all women over 50... a penetrating analysis of the challenges and heartaches of life's middle phase

—— Katherine Whitbourn , Daily Mail

Shilling casts a self-critical eye over the events that have shaped her life

—— Emma Hagestadt , Independent

The specifics of her early abuse is vivid, violent, and no less horrifying for its familiarity... If the memoir was begun as a final exorcism of the monster mother, it ends with a moving acceptance of her

—— Independent

Moved me deeply. [It] celebrates the redeeming power of the written word and is undercut with an irresistible humour born of residence in hardship

—— Juliet Nicholson , Evening Standard, Books of the Year

An extraordinary tragic-comic literary autobiography

—— Mark Lawson , Guardian, Books of the Year

There is something darkly Dickensian in the urgency and energy of her character and quest, in the acute, abrupt style of her self-presentation and in the extreme characters who have informed her life

—— The Times

Funny and scary mixed together, in the manner of the Brothers Grimm, sharp as a knife, round as a child's eye

—— Daily Telegraph

Difficult, spirited, engaging... a resonant affirmation of the power of storytelling to make things better

—— Jane Shilling , Daily Mail

Moving, turbulent

—— Zoe Williams , Guardian

Shattering, brilliant memoir... Here childhood eas ghastly, as bad as Dickens's stint in the blacking factory, but it was also the crucible for her incendiary talent

—— Daisy Goodwin , Sunday Times

Verbalyl dazzling, emotionally searing, compassionate and often hilarious memoir

—— Genevieve Fox , Daily Mail

Jeanette Winterson's new memoir appears to have been highly praised, rightly it seems to me, for its zest and candour and noted for a quality that some reviewers have seen as haste or even carelessness but which I see as her characteristic lively, pugnacious inventiveness.

—— Nicholas Murray , Bibliophilic Blogger

The prose is breathtaking: witty, biblical, chatty and vigorous all at once. She defines the pursuit of happiness not as being content (which is "fleeting" and "a bit bovine"), but as the impulse to "swim upstream", the search for a meaningful life. This breathless, powerful book is that search.

—— Emily Strokes , Financial Times

Winterson is a bold author with a track record of writing imaginative transformation tales, and this is a work about the power of words, stories and books to give identity to a life that is in turns shocking, funny, warm and wise.

—— Tina Jackson , Metro

Engaging memoir.

—— Daily Telegraph

There clear-eyed, drily witty, searingly moving memoir.

—— Katie Owen , Telegraph

It does all that committed fans might hope... This is far funnier than the novel that made Winterson’s name... Brilliant book.

—— Catherine Nixey , The Times

An inspirational memoir written in beautiful exact prose that celebrates the wildness of the ordinary. Winterson’s understanding of who she is… is both appallingly funny and deeply moving. Essential reading for anyone with a snitch of an interest in writing

—— Rachel Joyce , The Times

Why Be Happy When You Can Be Normal? burrowed deep and made me laugh and weep. This memoir has a great warmth and an intensity and honesty that is rare and the writing is exceptional

—— Jamie Byng , Herald

Winterson’s unconventional and winning memoir wrings humor from adversity as it describes her upbringing by a wildly deranged mother

—— New York Times

It is in laying the truth bare in this unflinchingly honest and gripping memoir that Winterson really seems to find self-acceptance, love and even happiness

—— Yvonne Cassidy , The Gloss
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