Author:Rao Pingru,Nicky Harman
A graphic memoir like no other: the true story of a marriage in China that spanned the twentieth century, told in vibrant, original paintings and prose.
WINNER OF AN ENGLISH PEN AWARD
Rao Pingru was a twenty-six-year-old soldier when he first saw the beautiful Mao Meitang. One glimpse of her through a window as she put on lipstick was enough to capture Pingru’s heart. It was a moment that sparked a union that would last almost sixty years.
But when Meitang passed away in 2008, Pingru realised that their marriage and all the small moments and memories of a life together, would be lost to history. And so at the age of eighty-eight, in an outpouring of love and grief, Pingru began to paint.
Our Story is a memorial to Pingru and Meitang’s epic romance, told through Pingru’s exquisitely detailed paintings and handwritten notes. We see Pingru and Meitang through the decades, through both poverty and good fortune, and as they grow so too does China: the nation undergoing political turmoil and seismic cultural change.
A tale both tragic and inspiring, of enduring love and simple values, Our Story is an old-fashioned romance that unfolds within the rush of a rapidly changing nation. A love letter, a work of folk art and a historical testament, Our Story is a truly unique graphic memoir.
'A beautifully warm, personal, human story of life, love and family' Forbidden Planet
A deeply moving love letter… Almost every page is gorgeously illustrated with his enchanting, sometimes heartbreaking paintings
—— Asia Review of BooksPingru, [at age] 95, makes his literary debut with a charming memoir illustrated with his own evocative watercolors... A graceful, gently told narrative of contentment and resilience
—— Kirkus ReviewsThanks to the persuasive power of its humane and humorous author, Our Story is as hard to resist as the great, rich, rambling serial narratives of the oral storytellers who travelled from one Chinese village to another
—— Hilary Spurling , The SpectatorHis pictures tell expressively of his talent for observation but also of his capacity for happiness… A wonderful book, full of energy and curiosity
—— Muriel Zagha , ElephantA beautifully warm, personal, human story of life, love and family
—— Forbidden PlanetHumane and humorous... Our Story is as hard to resist as the great, rich, rambling serial narratives of the oral storytellers who travelled from one Chinese village to another in the past, drawing entire populations out of their houses to sit on the hillside and listen
—— SpectatorA masterpiece of memory... Our Story is a deeply personal portrait of Rao Pingru's life and marriage as well as a gripping account of China in the 20th century
—— The Culture TripUsing spare prose and stunning, full-colour illustrations, Pingru reveals his struggles, joys, and enduring love for his wife over the course of their lives in a dramatically changing China... Pingru's exquisite, visually dazzling memoir reveals an ordinary life lived in extraordinary times
—— Publisher's WeeklyPingru’s intimate, illustrated memoir of a life shared with his wife, Meitang, offers a touching portrait of marriage. The story is driven by rich memories of everyday life...paired with Pingru’s expressive ink drawings... Our Story makes a compelling case for love’s power
—— BooklistIf there's one book I'd recommend to parents who are raising children of all ages - this is the book
—— Ellie Knaus, host of the Atomic Moms podcastImportant and timely. . . An essential book for parents and educators everywhere.
—— Sir Ken Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of The ElementThe book is a fun, witty, boisterous look at what it means to be a brother, to share that history and to make memories. And it’s a nice break from the ‘traditional’ biographic fare, although I suspect its greatest appeal will be, naturally, for brothers.
—— Jade Craddock , NudgePacked with hilarious stories but… also a touching take on modern masculinity and family
—— GraziaA memoir focusing on fraternal ties, it is an unconventionally uproarious take on what it is like to have a brother whom you love, but, oddly, have absolutely nothing in common with
—— A-ListA thoughtful street map to self-care that will also look beautiful on your shelf
—— The IndependentWhat comes through is Tara’s grit, determination and instinctive sense that somewhere within education lies her redemption ... There is pain and adversity in this heart-wrenching memoir but ultimately what Tara leaves us with is hope
—— Sunday ExpressMarvellous. There is no feeling like discovering a young writer who is springing up fully armed with so much talent
—— Stephen FryAbsolutely superb . . . the last 100 pages were so gripping I could hardly breathe
—— Sophie HannahTara Westover's beautifully written memoir shines a light on a part of our country that we too often overlook. Her powerful tale—of trying to find a place for herself in the world, without losing her connection to her family or her beloved home—deserves to be widely read. My Mamaw would have been rooting for Tara.
—— J.D. Vance, author of Hillbilly ElegyEducated, in showing us the unstoppable power of a young woman determined to make her own decisions and find her own way, is an inspiring and important tale for our times. I am still cheering her on
—— Rebecca Stott, award winning author of THE DAYS OF RAINUnflinching and fascinating
—— Sarah Manning , RedTragic and uplifting in equal measure
—— Irish TatlerAn extraordinary story, beautifully told.
—— Louise O'NeillExtraordinary, heartbreaking and ultimately uplifting
—— Carys Bray, author of A Song for Issy BradleyThis ferociously intelligent memoir is nevertheless full of kindness and insight. In looking beyond the triumphant point where many memoirs would finish, it achieves something far more powerful: Westover demonstrates that leaving a family is not the work of a moment but of a lifetime. Unflinching in confronting the cost of self-preservation, this book is beautiful in its bravery.
—— Imogen Hermes Gowar, author of THE MERMAID AND MRS HANCOCKA book that I did splits over
—— Mandy PatinkinJaw-dropping and so inspiring, everyone should read this book.
—— StylistA striking story, beautifully told. Tara is an incredible new talent
—— Cathy Rentzenbrink, author of A Manual for HeartacheA punch to the gut, a slow burn, a savage indictment, a love letter: Educated somehow contrives to be all these things at once. Tara Westover guides us through the extraordinary Western landscape of her coming of age, and in clear, tender prose makes us feel what she felt. We give ourselves over to her telling, even when she takes us to the very darkest places a family can dwell. Rarely have I read a book that made me so uncomfortable, so enraged, and at the same time so utterly, entirely absorbed. I loved this book, and this woman.
—— Claire DedererThis remarkable memoir – one of the best I've ever read – is my kind of miracle. The book made me cringe, cry out, cover my eyes, shake with anger, beam with pride, and appreciate the trials that led to my own education. Tara's story will find a place alongside modern classic memoirs, like Wild and The Glass Castle. It's that special
—— Susannah Cahalan, author of Brain on FireBreathtaking, heart-wrenching, inspirational – I’ve never read anything like this. Educated tells the story of a young girl's escape from violence and emotional prison. It is about the love of family and the pain of family both, the ferocity of the human spirit, and the power of education to change lives. Educated is one of the best books, and Westover one of the most gifted writers, that I've read in a very long time
—— Amy Chua, author of Battle Hymn of the Tiger MotherPowerful, moving, brave, naked and completely at home in its form . . . This is a daughter’s story of how she grew into herself and comes to understand her home.
—— Mona Simpson, author of Casebook and Anywhere But HereAn incredible memoir of triumph over seemingly endless adversity. The author's ability to write about her experiences in a clear-eyed, nonjudgmental way makes her story a pleasure to read. A study in the power and wonder of resilience
—— Cea Sunrise PersonEducated is a wise and deep reflection about surviving one’s family. I bow down to Tara Westover, not only for her marvelous, sentence-by-sentence craftsmanship but also for making sense and meaning from a confounding and hair-raising childhood. This is memoir at its best
—— Kelly CorriganEducated is so powerful, so haunting . . . [Westover’s] finely measured, beautifully rhythmic prose conveys the pain of trying to reconcile herself with being estranged from her parents, no matter how delusional they might be. Rejecting any form of binary thinking, she writes with a humaneness that comes partly from having suffered, and the book that grew out of that suffering is a rare and unexpected gift
—— The Irish IndependentTara Westover’s exhilarating coming of age story has only just come out and it’s already a classic … it leaves us readers dazzled and humbled in equal measure
—— Culture Whisper, Best New Memoirs of 2018An extraordinary tale
—— Red MagazineTotally unputdownable
—— Marissa Carter , Irish IndependentRemarkable
—— Woman & HomeA wonderful read
—— Church TimesA beautifully written, lyrical memoir packed full of incident and well worth a read
—— The Learning SpyA beautifully written account…fit to stand alongside the great modern memoirs.
—— Sunday TimesIt’s amazing. Couldn’t recommend it enough
—— Claudia Winkleman , Stellar MagazineA brilliant memoir
—— Lily Cole , The TimesAmazing and brilliant.
—— i Paper , Nina StibbeVivid evocation of a truly terrifying childhood
—— New StatesmanUnflinching and fascinating. Educated was one of 2018's standout memoirs.
—— RedIt's extraordinary and shines a light on the Mormon way of life ... fascinating.
—— Rick Edwards , The SunA powerful, jaw dropper of a book
—— StylistTriumphing over your background like spring triumphs over winter is always fertile territory for memoir. Perhaps the most exciting recently is Tara Westover’s Educated; she had a home life that is frankly astonishing, and how she ends up doing a master’s at Cambridge will make your heart soar.’
—— Jenny Colgan , GuardianJaw-dropping and so inspiring, everyone should read this book
—— StylistTara's journey as she realises her burning desire to know more about the world and escape the influence of her domineering father and brother is a true inspiration.
—— Hello!Absolutely incredible.
—— Ariel NicholsonAn amazing story
—— The Times, 20 Best MemoirsIf you didn't read this memoir when it first came out, do so, and realise what the fuss was all about
—— Velvet MagazineIt was one of the most interesting books I've ever read[...] I came away a lot more enlightened and educated myself.
—— Marie ClaireThis is a fascinating, breathtaking memoir that you won't be able to put down.
—— Good HousekeepingA really remarkable story
—— VIP MagazineBreathtaking
—— StylistEducated is devastatingly entertaining. Morbidly fascinating. Educated is, without doubt, an essential read.
—— British Journal of General PracticeI found myself forcing onto other people just so I could talk to them about it.
—— VogueIt's brilliant.
—— Donna Air , Sunday TelegraphIn her beautifully written memoir, Westover explores her complex childhood and her heart-breaking decision to leave her family and pursue an education. It is proof of the transformative power of learning and the importance of second chances
—— Harper's BazaarI devoured this book. I loved it . . . It's such a good book
—— Sara JonesIt's amazing
—— Alex JonesEducated is a shocking story of self-invention and the transformative power of hope, tenacity and education.
—— Elle, Best AudiobooksOn audio, I find myself enthralled and convinced.
—— Nigella Lawson , The TimesA truly inspiring listen.
—— Good Housekeeping