Author:Pamela Stephenson-Connolly
When did your sexual experiences start? Are you having more virtual sex than real sex? Can you have too much or not enough sex? What exactly is 'normal'?
Bestselling author and leading sex therapist, Pamela Stephenson-Connolly takes us on an eye-opening journey to explode the myths and answer the embarrassing questions we've always wanted to ask about sex and our insatiable appetite for it.
Drawing on hundreds of intimate interviews with ordinary people of all ages, appetites and backgrounds, Stephenson-Connolly reveals how the ever-present sexual force in each of us evolves throughout our lives, from our first months in the womb up right until our nineties and beyond. She also shows that there is no such thing as 'normal' and that anything goes when it comes to sex as long as it is safe, sane and consensual. The result is an intimate portrait of our sexual selves that dispels the myths, guilt and mystery surrounding sex and our sexual urges.
Hugely informative, always entertaining and at times shocking, this is arguably one of the most enlightening books on sex ever published.
A rare insight into human sexuality across the ages
—— The GuardianHugely entertaining, informative and at times shocking, this is an enlightening book about the sex lives of ordinary people.
—— Lighter LifeThe best self-help book I've read...everyone should read this
—— Health PlusLike the title says, just go for it
—— ElleFeel The Fear And Do It Anyway will help turn your fear into confidence and action
—— Deidre Sanders, The SunSometimes we all need courage
—— Geri Halliwell, on reading Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway, Evening StandardThis job can really accentuate panic and fear. A great book for that is Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway'
—— Tony Adams, Football Manager, in Men's HealthPacked with insights as to why we feel the way we do and tools to improve your coping mechanisms
—— SunThe queen of self-help
—— ExpressSimple yet profound reasoning
—— IndependentA fascinating, engaging and very well-written book.
—— Dallas Campbell , Science FocusFoer's book is great fun and hugely readable, not least because the author is a likeable sort of Everyman-science nerd whom we want to become a memory champion. Always fascinating and frequently mind-boggling, Moonwalking with Einstein is a book worth remembering.
—— Mark Turner , The IndependentIn the most entertaining science book of the year, Foer describes how, though claiming to have an average memory, he became America's Memory Champion after just 12 months in training. The best way to recall an array of disparate objects is to place each object within some bizarre visual narrative. The more bizarre the better, hence the title of the book. Foer's personal story frames a history of memory from early hunters needing to find the way home to modern-day investigations (still very much in their infancy) of memory's neural workings
—— Sunday Times Science Books of the YearKahneman provides a detailed, yet accessible, description of the psychological mechanisms involved in making decisions
—— Jacek Debiec , NatureThis book is one of the few that must be counted as mandatory reading for anyone interested in the Internet, even though it doesn't claim to be about that. Before computer networking got cheap and ubiquitous, the sheer inefficiency of communication dampened the effects of the quirks of human psychology on macro scale events. No more. We must now confront how we really are in order to make sense of our world and not screw it up. Daniel Kahneman has discovered a path to make it possible
—— Jaron Lanier, author of You Are Not a GadgetFor anyone interested in economics, cognitive science, psychology, and, in short, human behavior, this is the book of the year. Before Malcolm Gladwell and Freakonomics, there was Daniel Kahneman who invented the field of behavior economics, won a Nobel...and now explains how we think and make choices. Here's an easy choice: read this
—— The Daily BeastI will never think about thinking quite the same. [Thinking, Fast and Slow] is a monumental achievement
—— Roger Lowenstein , Bloomberg/BusinessweekA terrific unpicking of human rationality and irrationality - could hardly have been published at a better moment. Kahnemann is the godfather of behavioural economics, and this distillation of a lifetime's thinking about why we make bad decisions - about everything from money to love - is full of brilliant anecdote and wisdom. It is Kahnemann's belief that anyone who thinks they know exactly what is going on hasn't understood the question; as such it's the perfect gift for opinionated family members everywhere.
—— Tim Adams , Observer Books of the YearThe book I most want to be given is Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman. I'm a speedy thinker myself, so am hoping to be endorsed in that practice.
—— Sally Vickers , Observer Books of the YearIn this comprehensive presentation of a life's work, the world's most influential psychologist demonstrates that irrationality is in our bones, and we are not necessarily the worse for it
—— 10 Best Books of 2011 , New York TimesSelected by the New York Times as one of the 100 Notable Books of 2011
—— New York TimesWonderfully rich and insightful
—— Julian Ovenden , Daily ExpressA brilliant read
—— Nadine O’Regan , Sunday Business PostEssays true to psychoanalytic principles, but free from jargon; they have the quality of the best short stories.
—— Lorna Bradbury , Daily TelegraphGrosz is able to expand out creating universal themes and experiences that makes every chapter personally relevant to the reader. It is a fascinating process that challenges you to reflect honestly about your own experiences… Indeed this is both the perfect book for someone with no psychology background or someone who works in the area… I found this book extremely interesting… I would highly recommend to anyone wanting an interesting and fascinating social science read and it is a book you’ll remember long after reading.
—— Topic UKGrosz’s vignettes are so brilliantly put together that they read like pieces of bare, illuminating fiction. . . utterly captivating
—— Robert Collins , Sunday TimesMarvellous… After reading [Grosz’s] absorbing accounts of his patients’ journeys you might feel that The Examined Life ought to be given out free at birth
—— Melissa Katsoulis , The TimesCrystal-clear and completely magical…The Examined Life is a book full of troubles, but also of wonders
—— Craig Brown , Mail on SundayEngaging, frank, and with many penetrating insights. His short, succinct chapters have both the tension and the satisfaction of miniature detective or mystery stories
—— Michael Holroyd , The SpectatorBy turns edifying and moving…Grosz offers astute insights into the perplexities of everyday life
—— Trisha Andres , Financial Times[Grosz's accounts] are shaped like short stories, but true and moving in ways that fiction cannot be […] distilled through long examination into finely crafted literary form…
—— Alexander Linklater , ObserverGrosz’s message is always affirming…it is possible to change
—— Mark Crockett , The ScotsmanExcellent… Every one of these case histories bears repeating. All offer worthwhile insights
—— Susanna Rustin , GuardianIntelligent, human and deeply moving
—— Jane Clinton , Sunday Express'Grosz] writes lucidly and with sensitivity… sprinkled with wise reflections… A gem… highly recommended
—— Leyla Sanai , The Independent[A] fine and moving book… It is a true literary work and a very modern one…
—— Anthony Rudolf , Jewish ChronicleThat rarest of pleasures: a book I loved, and could recommend to almost anyone
—— John Self , Asylum blogEnlightening…full of wisdom and insight
—— Sophie Hannah , MetroBeautifully unadorned writing... He paints a vivid portrait of his patients
—— Sunday Business PostA rare insight into the life of the psychoanalyst… succeeds in making complex behavioural issues accessible for any reader
—— Kathryn Gaw , Irish TimesExquisitely written casebook
—— Vantage NW MagazineThe suspense in each chapter is so expert that I had to double check that this wasn’t a work of fiction. Best of all, Grosz manages to give a jargon-free account of how psychoanalysis works
—— The WeekBy turns edifying and moving… Grosz offers astute insights into the perplexities of everyday life
—— Trisha Andres , Financial TimesGrosz's vignettes are so brilliantly put together that they read like pieces of bare illuminating fiction... It is this combination of tenacious detective work, remarkable compassion and sheer, unending curiosity for the oddities of the human heart that makes these stories utterly captivating.
—— Sunday TimesBrilliant…. Grosz is a superb writer, yes, but it is the stories his patients tell him that really make you marvel. An elegant, jargon-free expedition into the secret business of our minds written with such wisdom and kindness… After reading [Grosz’s] absorbing accounts of his patients’ journeys you might feel that The Examined Life out to be given out free at birth
—— Melissa Katsoulis , The TimesA fine and moving book... The tact, patience and understatement, which are particular components of Grosz’s wisdom, remind the reader that this writer’s insights and empathy result from thousand of hours with patients. This book is not polemical literature… nor is it an academic work or a popular self-help book. It is a true literary work and a very modern one.
—— Jewish ChronicleCrystal-clear and completely magical...The Examined Life is a book full of troubles, but also of wonders: it shows people trapped by their own mysterious impulses, searching for an escape hatch, and often finding it
—— Craig Brown , Daily MailFive star review - an intelligent, human and deeply moving book… Grosz is listening for the unspoken and the gaps in between. His book celebrates change and the triumphs and tragedies of humanity
—— Jane Clinton , Sunday ExpressExcellent… this book arrives like a box of chocolates. Thirty-one elegantly presented chapters which, when you bite into them, each reveals something sweet, rich or crunchy. Every one of these case histories bears repeating. All offer worthwhile insights.
—— Susanna Rustin , The GuardianEngaging, frank, and with many penetrating insights. His short, succinct chapters have both the tension and the satisfaction of miniature detective or mystery stories… A stimulating book.
—— The SpectatorGrosz writes lucidly and with sensitivity, treating his patients with respect. The cases are sprinkled with wise reflections... highly recommended
—— IndependentThere are many sage lessons here, backed up by research where necessary…fascinating… Grosz writes lucidly and with sensitivity, treating his patients with respect. The cases are sprinkled with wise reflections…highly recommended
—— Leylai Sinai , IndependentIntensely readable… As a reminder of the strangeness of human existence, the myriad ways we find of making ourselves unhappy and the perplexing resourcefulness of the unconscious mind, Grosz’s book is a worthwhile addition to the literature of the examined life.
—— New StatesmanWritten with real elegance and a strong sense of structure… several chapters read like powerful short stories
—— Readers DigestElegantly structured and written… Grosz’s book is intensely readable
—— Jane Shilling , New StatesmenShaped like short stories, but true and moving in ways that fiction cannot be... Gradually accumulating through his book, Grosz provides, not a definition, but an enactment of the purpose of psychoanalysis, which is both modest and profound.
—— Alexander Linklater , ObserverGrosz is an able writer, engaging, frank and with many penetrating insights. His short, succinct chapters have both the tension and the satisfaction of miniature detective or mystery stories… a stimulating book
—— Michael Holroyd , Spectator[These] interpretations make fascinating reading, leave you marvelling at the ingenuity of the human subconscious. Grosz’s message is always affirming: if a person can work out what it is that’s driving them, it is possible to change
—— Mary Crockett , The ScotsmanGrosz’s narrative is by turns edifying and moving...tempered by his engaging prose and moments of humour
—— Trisha Andres , The Financial TimesI couldn't put this down—I read about other people, but learned about myself at the same time. Real stories can be so much more fascinating than fictional ones, especially with Stephen Grosz. No preaching, no clichés—just wisdom.
—— Victoria HislopModest and profound
—— Alexander Linklater , Observer