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Some Body to Love
Dec 4, 2024 3:44 AM

Author:Alexandra Heminsley

Some Body to Love

'A treatise on empathy and grace in extraordinary circumstances' Jojo Moyes

What does it mean to be a woman? To live in a woman's body?

Alexandra Heminsley thought she knew, but then her world turned inside out. Having just resurfaced from fertility issues, childbirth and early parenthood, she was told her then-husband was going to transition.

Some Body to Love is Alex's profoundly open-hearted memoir about losing a partner but gaining a best friend, and together bringing up a baby in a changing world. By baring her own unique scars, Heminsley makes a vital manifesto on the unifying resilience that can be found in modern motherhood.

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Praise for Some Body to Love:

'Insightful and wise, generous and kind' David Nicholls

'A brave, thoughtful and timely book' Naomi Alderman

'A testament to how family and love can be whatever shape we want them to be' Red

'It took my breath away' Bryony Gordon

'A book with a wild, deep, joyous, tender love of people at its heart' Emma Jane Unsworth

Reviews

Jaw-dropping... This is an extraordinary, kind, and generous book about what it means to live in a woman's body and the questions you ask yourself along the way.

—— Independent, *Books of the Year*

Staggering... Heminsley is unflinching in her exploration of her feelings.

—— Daisy Goodwin , Sunday Times

Heartbreak and happiness sit in tandem in Alexandra Heminsley's wise and generous book.

—— Eithne Farry , Daily Mirror

Generous, calm and thoughtful... Some Body to Love argues cogently for greater openness and understanding towards different gender expressions...also page-turningly compelling

—— Holly Williams , Observer

A vital call for compassion and awareness...a hugely hopeful and deftly written book - and one that might encourage greater empathy in how we respond to all kinds of difference

—— Gwendolyn Smith , i

This insightful memoir covers some hefty subjects -- gender identity, body image, infertility, divorce -- with wisdom and grace

—— Good Housekeeping

Breathtakingly honest, warm and generous, Some Body To Love is a testament to how family and love can be whatever shape we want them to be

—— Sarra Manning , Red

A treatise on empathy and grace in extraordinary circumstances

—— Jojo Moyes

This memoir is going to change a lot of people's lives, and I think it's going to change the conversation

—— Damian Barr , Big Scottish Book Club

Insightful and wise, generous and kind

—— David Nicholls

A brave, thoughtful and timely book -- calming and inspiring on our different relationships with our bodies, and vitally compassionate on trans rights

—— Naomi Alderman

It took my breath away . . . It's such a beautiful book, so full of compassion and kindness even in its furious honesty . . . You are going to love it

—— Bryony Gordon

A book about how a personal crisis caused someone to open up rather than shut down . . . really admirable and carefully done . . . on bodies, families, gender identity, bravery

—— Amy Liptrot

Wise, kind, funny, sad and beautifully written. Everyone who occupies a human body should read it

—— Erin Kelly

Fabulous . . . Sensitively and cleverly written . . . remarkable

—— Judy Murray

The most moving and real account of a person's relationship with their body I have ever read... A book with a wild, deep, joyous, tender love of people at its heart

—— Emma Jane Unsworth

A much needed clarion call for greater empathy, compassion and respect for humanity

—— Daisy Buchanan

A sensitively written, wise and joyful look at the way that families can crack apart and then reconfigure... [Heminsley's] telling of their family tale is so warm, observant, and kind, and perfectly illustrates how malleable love can be

—— Farming Life

A gorgeous open-hearted read but also a vital, instructive one

—— Caroline Sanderson , Bookseller

A raw, heartbreaking, uplifting memoir about reinvention, being a woman and love in all its forms. An important book, beautifully written

—— Kate Davies, author of In at the Deep End

Alexandra Heminsley understands what it is to be a woman in a world that judges us, our bodies, and the experience of these bodies, in every way and at all times... Charting her journey to her own body through loss, heartache and trauma, alongside love, friendship and hope, she suggests that each of us might find our own way to embody our deepest truths, and that we might do so with generosity to others on their own journey

—— Stella Duffy

[Heminsley] writes with unflinching clarity

—— Brian Morton , Tablet

[An] insightful memoir

—— Joanne Finney , Good Housekeeping

Bracingly honest...big-hearted... [and] page-turningly compelling

—— Holly Williams , Observer

Some Body To Love is an honest and thoughtful memoir that touches on difficult contemporary topics . . . Incredibly moving and very, very powerfu

—— Monocle

A powerful treatise on pain and love, this is an honest, moving and authentic examination of the end of a relationship, and the way our lives can fracture and recover from sudden, seismic shifts. Heminsley's writing is sharply resonant - you don't have to share her experiences to be struck by her observations about letting go with love, and how we can find strength in self-love too

—— SheerLuxe, *Books of the Year*

Energetic, dark and hilarious. Paris Lees, with her loud and proud sense of self, is set to explode.. if you read one book this summer, make it What It Feels Like for a Girl... radically cool, explosive and riotous ... long may Lees' voice shine neon bright

—— Shivani Kochnar , The Daily Mail

Like Alan Sillitoe on acid... it's got to be a film. I've never read anything like it.

—— Vicky McClure

Raw and original

—— Elle Magazine

Extraordinary, riotous, furiously unique, moving and funny, What It Feels Like for a Girl is a deeply important book as well as being a fantastic read

—— Elizabeth Day

Clever, gripping, messy, sad. I loved it.

—— Travis Alabanza

Sadness and joy also go hand-in-hand in What It Feels Like for a Girl, an exuberant account of Paris Lees's tearaway teenage years in Hucknall, Nottinghamshire, where "the streets are paved wi' dog shit". Her gender nonconformity is just one aspect of an adolescence that also features bullying, violence, prostitution, robbery and a spell in a young offenders' institute. Yet despite the many traumas, Lees finds joy and kinship in the underground club scene and a group of drag queens who cocoon her in love and laughter.

—— Fiona Sturges , The Guardian, Best Books of 2021

Bold and compulsively readable... She writes with humour about heartbreakingly harrowing moments while simultaneously capturing the dazzling joy of Nottingham nightlife and the importance of finding those who accept you for who you truly are

—— Emma Hanson , Harper's Bazaar, memoirs and autobiographies to be inspired by
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