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The Other Mother
Sep 20, 2024 8:35 PM

Author:Jen Brister

The Other Mother

I'm Jen Brister: stand-up comedian, middle-aged adolescent, and mum. But not that mum - I'm the other one.

'Hysterical, important, moving, wonderful' Sara Pascoe

Confused? Two years ago, my partner (a woman - we're not solicitors) gave birth to twins. (I know! Believe me, I'm still reeling myself.) Like every new parent, I had absolutely no clue what I was doing. Add 'gay' and 'non-biological' to the mix and what do you get? Not a weird box of detergent, but a panicked beige lesbian desperately googling, 'Will my babies love me?' at 3 a.m.

A very funny, very honest look at parenting life, from IVF awfulness to crying over the pages of sleep training manuals. A perfect gift for any parent who feels they don't fit the mould of a traditional family.

*LONGLISTED FOR THE POLARI PRIZE*

'Damned funny. You'll find the pages of this book brimming with rich and wonderful proof' Hannah Gadsby

'A side-splittingly honest look at the grim realities of same-sex parenting' Diva

Reviews

I love Jen Brister. She is a like mind and damned funny. You’ll find the pages of this book brimming with rich and wonderful proof of all of this ... and more

—— Hannah Gadsby

Jen is one of the funniest comedians I’ve ever seen and her book is predictably hysterical. It’s also moving, important and wonderful

—— Sara Pascoe

Jen Brister is bloody funny both on stage and in this brilliant book

—— Sarah Millican

Fresh, heartwarming and very, very wise. The funniest and most refreshingly honest account of being a parent that I've ever read

—— Frankie Boyle

The Other Mother, is a side-splittingly honest look at the grim realities of same-sex parenting

—— Roxy Bourdillon , Diva

I can't tell you how much I enjoyed reading the book. [The brain] is absolutely extraordinary.

—— Ella Mills, Deliciously Ella

A great book, which explains, in plain English, the workings of the brain and how to keep it healthy.

—— Adrian Chiles

Packed with the most relevant information on how to maximise your brain health. A great way to make better informed choices about your body and brain. It serves as a perfect reminder of how vital and connected this complex organ really is.

—— How it Works

This is where storytelling meets brain health. A thoroughly enjoyable read by Dr. Goodwin, a founding member of our Global Council on Brain Health, with a gift for clever elucidations.

—— Sarah Lenz Lock, Executive Director of the Global Council on Brain Health

Essential tips to help keep your grey matter fighting fit.

—— Healthy For Men

Clover Stroud writes with precise intimacy and fearless honesty. She has somehow found a wholly original way to describe motherhood and, in doing so, truly conveys what it's like, in all its messy, sexy glory.

—— Hadley Freeman

I have been waiting for a book like this for a long time. Stroud captures the very essence of motherhood in all its contradictions - the brutal loveliness of what it is to mother another, and how the act of doing so breaks us open in ways both wonderful and terrible. There are few other books about motherhood as brave, honest and beautifully written as this one.

—— Sarah Langford, author of In Your Defence

The best memoirists don’t just tell us about their lives – they tell us something about our lives, too. And Clover Stroud is one of our finest contemporary memoirists. My Wild and Sleepless Nights – her pitiless examination of her life as the mother of five children – is a masterpiece.

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Esther Coren

I read in one greedy gulp and am still slightly reeling. Extraordinary writing… For mothers and those even vaguely interested in family dynamics it is fascinating.

—— Alexandra Heminsley

I ripped through it. Bravo brave Clover Stroud, who writes about “raw and animal” motherhood in a way that make sense to me.

—— Amy Liptrot

So raw and vivid. Clover is amazing and honest – she tells it.

—— Rachel Johnson

Brilliant – touching, tender, honest and so true. I don’t think I’ve ever read anything like it. It captures that hopeless sense of how much you love your children and how powerless you feel as they grow up and away from you.

—— Eleanor Mills

What a beautiful writer Clover Stroud is! This honest look at the high and lows of the roller coaster that is maternal life and love is both joyous and exhilarating.

—— Cathy Rentzenbrink

A compelling read. Clover writes so beautifully and somehow manages to give shape to the mess and madness of motherhood.

—— Lucy Atkins

Stroud writes with moving, eloquent honesty.

—— Elizabeth Day

Clover Stroud is a force of nature.

—— Elizabeth Gilbert

Stroud's honesty as a writer is blistering.

—— Spectator

It's the honesty that makes this book so compelling.

—— Emily Hill , Spectator

I devoured it in one gollop. Clover’s extreme honesty is a rare and lovely thing. A wonderful book.

—— Julie Myerson

As tender, blazing, funny and unflinching as the love it describes. At last someone has given a voice to the days spent hiding at the school gates, and scrambling for items of vaguely matching PE kit, and mouldy orange peel down the sofa, and the love that can reduce me to tears on an almost daily basis. I want to give this triumphant book to every mother I know. I want to say to them, Look what we did and we do; and it’s all in here.

—— Rachel Joyce

Clover’s writing is visceral and brilliant, and motherhood is her topic.

—— India Knight

Editor's Choice: It left me both nodding and groaning in recognition as well as reeling with empathy and admiration ... there's no doubting that all the pain and glory of birthing and nurturing new beings is wholeheartedly expressed here.

—— Alice O'Keefe , The Bookseller

The ecstasies, the agonies, the passion and the pain. Reading Clover Stroud is a whole body experience.

—— Polly Samson

Addresses what motherhood really feels like... She writes about raising five children with honesty and poignancy, revealing universal truths along the way.

—— Red Magazine

Stroud's warm and honest memoir is the take on parenting we all need. An unflinching look at how to hold on to your own personality when motherhood threatens to submerge it.

—— i Newspaper

Stroud’s clear-eyed look at how wildness and domesticity have entwined in her life is both heartening and inspiring.

—— Olivia Laing

Clover Stroud writes with such startling vivacity and honesty about motherhood, this book has its own heartbeat. It crackles with life - its messiness, darkness, and joy. I loved it.

—— Eve Chase, author Black Rabbit Hall and The Vanishing of Audrey Wilde

Clover’s expertise is writing about family life in a way that feels both new and entirely familiar. How Clover talks about motherhood is very different to the ways you see it talked about – I think we’ve got two polarised narratives in media at the moment and she fuses them together to find this new place. She’s really put into words how I feel as a mother – that it is this intense, almost sickening, love, but it is also an absolute fear that you don’t ever know how you’d live without them. I really recommend My Wild and Sleepless Nights.

——
Pandora Sykes

Her descriptions leap off the page... It's the honesty that makes this book so compelling.

—— The Spectator

Clover Stroud managed to write down all of the mania in one place, making me shed a tear and honk with laughter…she writes so eloquently about all we lose as well as gain through our children.

—— Emma Barnett , Good Housekeeping

'Clover Stroud is a wonderful writer of the most colourful prose

—— ME+EM Bookclub

My Wild and Sleepless Nights by Clover Stroud is a robust, raw and rare celebration of motherhood that had me laughing out loud one moment and crying the next.

—— Rachel Joyce , Observer

A captivating guide to the joys and terrors of motherhood.

—— Sunday Times best paperbacks of 2021

An electrically candid memoir...raw, elemental and beautiful.

—— Daily Telegraph
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