Author:The Unmumsy Mum
THIS IS NOT A PARENTING MANUAL. THIS IS REAL LIFE.
The Unmumsy Mum writes candidly about motherhood like it really is: the messy, maddening, hilarious reality, how there is no 'one size fits all' approach and how it is sometimes absolutely fine to not know what you are doing.
The lessons she's learnt while grappling with two small boys - from birth to teething, 3am night feeds to toddler tantrums, soft play to toilet training - will have you roaring with laughter and taking great comfort in the fact that it's definitely not just you...
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What readers are saying:
***** 'Not just hilarious (although it is definitely that), it was helpful, emotional, and totally honest as usual!'
***** 'Made me feel not alone and had me laughing out loud, and welling up at times, too, for the honesty.'
***** 'I felt connected to so much in this book ... here's to the imperfect parents!'
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Praise for The Unmumsy Mum:
'The Unmumsy Mum is hilarious. She says all the things we're scared to share - I love her!' Giovanna Fletcher
'Hilarious, irreverent and searingly candid.' Bella magazine.
Mind on Fire is a truly powerful, arresting, haunting account. Arnold Thomas Fanning has reckoned with the darkest matter of his heart and mind, and I challenge anyone not to be moved by that.
—— Sara Baume[A] painfully intense, courageous and gripping account of [Fanning's] journey to the underworld of madness and back. This is a brave and instructive book.
—— Irish TimesIn this strange and singular book, Arnold Thomas Fanning mercilessly excavates the infernal underworld of his own years of madness. As reminiscent as it occasionally is of John Healy's The Grass Arena, and even of Orwell's Down and Out in Paris and London, the book is ultimately not quite like anything else I've read, and brought me as close to the lived reality of mental illness as I have ever been. It's a significant achievement: a painful, inexorable work of autobiography, whose existence is its own form of redemption.
—— Mark O'ConnellThis is an extraordinary memoir about how it feels to be depressed, delusional, desperate
—— ObserverExtraordinary. An account of mental illness, grief, delusions, homelessness, a fractured family relationship ... and all while trying to recover and create. Superb writing on a frequently difficult subject.
—— Sinéad GleesonArnold Thomas Fanning offers the most vivid and unflinching window into the mind of someone who is in the throes of madness ... It was like nothing I'd read before
—— Rick EdwardsIncredibly important
—— Emilie Pine, author of Notes to SelfA spellbinding memoir that should prove both moving and hopefully cathartic for the reader
—— RTÉ CultureWonderful
—— Joseph O'Connor , Irish Times Books of the YearTold in tight and immediate first-person, and imbued with a startling momentum that ratchets unnervingly, Fanning's publishing debut ... is a significant achievement and should be a talking point in publishing this year
—— Irish IndependentFanning's debut book lays it on the line in a deeply personal and compelling chronicle of his descent into depression and his way back out.
—— RTE GuideUnsparingly direct, searing and honest ... It is gripping to read and must have been exhausting to live
—— Prof Brendan Kelly , Medical IndependentOne of the most gripping and revealing memoirs I've read in a long time. A controlled and artful exploration of absolute loss of control, an unsettling and at times very moving reconstruction of a period of serious mental illness, Mind on Fire is a beautiful book about a terrifying thing.
—— Mark O'Connell , Irish Times Books of the YearGripping
—— Sinéad Gleeson , Irish Times Books of the YearShocking
—— Liz Nugent , Irish Times Books of the YearA ratcheting pace, a tight first-person immediacy, and utterly staggering to be a passenger over its entire warped course ... An indelible, ground-shaking account
—— Hilary A White , Irish Independent, Memoir of the Year, Best Reads of 2018Poignant, beautifully detailed memoir
—— Sarah Gilmartin , Irish Times, Best Debuts of 2018Brave and illuminating
—— Sunday Business PostBrimming with wit and intelligence and devoted to things that matter: life, love, death, and the mysteries of the cosmos. Nell Freudenberger is good at explaining physics, but her real genius is in the depiction of relationships. Each one in the novel-whether between adults, adults and children, or among children-is unique, finely calibrated, and real. The title is a line from a poem by W.H. Auden, which doesn't fully hit until the end of the book, when it takes on heart-rending poignancy
—— KirkusI love novels that are obsessed with the "erotics of knowledge," books that understand how ideas are not the opposite of feelings but rather their intense distillation. A. S. Byatt's "Possession," Ann Patchett's "State of Wonder," Barbara Kingsolver's recent "Unsheltered," and Nell Freudenberger's forthcoming "Lost and Wanted" all are marvelous depictions of the direct link between the body's cravings and the passions of the mind
—— Richard Powers , New York TimesFreudenberger's outstanding achievement is that Lost and Wanted is also a moving story about down-to-earth issues like grief and loneliness
—— NPRA true triumph
—— Richard Ford on 'The Newlyweds'An unambiguous success
—— Meg Wolitzer on 'The Newlyweds'A marvellous book
—— Kiran Desai on 'The Newlyweds'A deliciously precise and perceptive writer
—— ElleAn incandescent talent
—— The TimesGenuinely moving . . . Freudenberger demonstrates her assurance as a novelist and her knowledge of the complicated arithmetic of familial love, and the mathematics of romantic passion
—— Michiko Kakutani on 'The Newlyweds' , New York TimesEvery minute I was away from this book I was longing to be back in the world she created
—— Ann Patchett on 'The Newlyweds'An ode to the companionship of the women on the neonatal ward in the darkest, most volatile days, it is moving but never mawkish
—— Phoebe Luckhirst , Evening Standard, *Books of the Year*A song of praise to the beleaguered, indomitable NHS, with writing at such a pitch that it lingered with me all year
—— Olivia Laing , Observer, *Books of the Year*A heart-tugging account… this is one of the year’s most exquisitely written books
—— Claire Allfree , Metro, *Books of the Year*