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Things I Couldn't Tell My Mother
Oct 4, 2024 3:38 AM

Author:Sue Johnston

Things I Couldn't Tell My Mother

'There was a lot that we kept from my mother. My dad would say to me as a teenager "Don't tell your mother." We couldn't face the disapproval.'

Sue Johnston always seemed to be disappointing her mother. As a girl she never stayed clean and tidy like her cousins. As she grew older, she spent all her piano lesson money on drinks for her mates down the pub, and when she discovered The Cavern she was never at home. The final straw was when Sue left her steady job at a St Helen's factory to try her hand at that unsteadiest of jobs: acting.

Yet when Sue was bringing up her own child alone, her mother was always there to help. And playing her much-loved characters Sheila Grant in Waking the Dead and Barbara in The Royle Family- although her mum wouldn't say she was proud as such, she certainly seemed to approve. And in her mother's final months, it was Sue she needed by her side.

The relationship with your mother is perhaps the most precious and fraught of any woman's life. When she began writing, Sue set out to record 'all the big things, and all the small things. Everything I wanted to tell my mother but felt I never could'. The result is a warm, poignant and often very funny memoir by one of Britain's favourite actresses.

Reviews

Searingly honest

—— Daily Mail

Candid, affectionate ... Johnston's unadorned prose style, blending tender personal recollection with just enough showbiz gossip to season the narrative, is like listening to her chatting to you over a cup of tea - ****

—— Michael Simkins , Mail on Sunday

Warm, fascinating but brutally honest memoir

—— Mirror

She lays bare the complicated and often difficult relationship she had with her mother with humour, warmth and honesty. Wonderful reading for mothers and daughters alike

—— Prima

Racily readable, humorous autobiography

—— Saga magazine

A book about love - ****

—— Sunday Express

This is a heart warming, unpretentious, beautifully written account of the relationship between two women ... Things I Couldn't Tell My Mother is a delightful, unselfishly composed read that goes just that bit deeper than most memoirs written ... a pleasure from start to finish

—— We Love Books

This is Diana Melly's book, and she has the good literary sense (and the courage) to live in its pages in a way that makes me throw my hat in the air

—— Andrew O’Hagan , Daily Telegraph

Intimate, yet well-researched..comedic and poignant, her many-faceted memoir is rendered in high-definition as Heller recounts meals, travels, parties, arguments, lies, and the serious illnesses that afflicted her and her parents. Writing with wit, compassion, aplomb, and no little wonder at what her father wrought and her mother endured and how this legacy shaped her, Heller presents an involving and invaluable work of personal and cultural history.

—— Booklist

Heller's family memoir brims with warm reflections right from the opening chapters... An affectionate family scrapbook crafted with a bittersweet blend of humor and pathos

—— Kirkus Reviews

Erica Heller to me is like a Carrie Fisher on the East Coast. She is as authentic as they come

—— Richard Lewis, comedian, actor, author

Erica Heller has a story to tell and I for one am eager to see it in print. I think this is going to be one hell(er) of a memoir

—— Christopher Buckley, author of Losing Mum and Pup

The New York of the period leaps off the page

—— Emma Hagestadt , Independent

Heller's domestic side is evoked with painful detail by his daughter, Erica, in her well written, occasionally harrowing memoir, Yossarian Slept Here

—— Sunday Times

Likeable memoir...just as Daugherty is blind to the limitations of Heller's work so he appears resistant to personal criticism of Heller or rebuke. Just One Catch is no hagiography but, of these two biographical accounts on Yossarian Slept Here gives us the gruff, arrogant big shot; the smug cocky fellow who sometimes showed up to friend's cocktail parties for the sheer fun of insulting them

—— Leo Robson , Financial Times

Boasts everything that she does best: courage, ferocity and prose that soars

—— Julie Myerson , New Statesman, Books of the Year

In memoir, honesty matters more than anything but, when married with humour, wit and elan vital of Jeanette Winterson's [book], it is a transformative force

—— John Burnside , New Statesman, Books of the Year

The specifics of her early abuse is vivid, violent, and no less horrifying for its familiarity... If the memoir was begun as a final exorcism of the monster mother, it ends with a moving acceptance of her

—— Independent

Moved me deeply. [It] celebrates the redeeming power of the written word and is undercut with an irresistible humour born of residence in hardship

—— Juliet Nicholson , Evening Standard, Books of the Year

An extraordinary tragic-comic literary autobiography

—— Mark Lawson , Guardian, Books of the Year

There is something darkly Dickensian in the urgency and energy of her character and quest, in the acute, abrupt style of her self-presentation and in the extreme characters who have informed her life

—— The Times

Funny and scary mixed together, in the manner of the Brothers Grimm, sharp as a knife, round as a child's eye

—— Daily Telegraph

Difficult, spirited, engaging... a resonant affirmation of the power of storytelling to make things better

—— Jane Shilling , Daily Mail

Moving, turbulent

—— Zoe Williams , Guardian

Shattering, brilliant memoir... Here childhood eas ghastly, as bad as Dickens's stint in the blacking factory, but it was also the crucible for her incendiary talent

—— Daisy Goodwin , Sunday Times

Verbalyl dazzling, emotionally searing, compassionate and often hilarious memoir

—— Genevieve Fox , Daily Mail

Jeanette Winterson's new memoir appears to have been highly praised, rightly it seems to me, for its zest and candour and noted for a quality that some reviewers have seen as haste or even carelessness but which I see as her characteristic lively, pugnacious inventiveness.

—— Nicholas Murray , Bibliophilic Blogger

The prose is breathtaking: witty, biblical, chatty and vigorous all at once. She defines the pursuit of happiness not as being content (which is "fleeting" and "a bit bovine"), but as the impulse to "swim upstream", the search for a meaningful life. This breathless, powerful book is that search.

—— Emily Strokes , Financial Times

Winterson is a bold author with a track record of writing imaginative transformation tales, and this is a work about the power of words, stories and books to give identity to a life that is in turns shocking, funny, warm and wise.

—— Tina Jackson , Metro

Engaging memoir.

—— Daily Telegraph

There clear-eyed, drily witty, searingly moving memoir.

—— Katie Owen , Telegraph

It does all that committed fans might hope... This is far funnier than the novel that made Winterson’s name... Brilliant book.

—— Catherine Nixey , The Times

An inspirational memoir written in beautiful exact prose that celebrates the wildness of the ordinary. Winterson’s understanding of who she is… is both appallingly funny and deeply moving. Essential reading for anyone with a snitch of an interest in writing

—— Rachel Joyce , The Times

Why Be Happy When You Can Be Normal? burrowed deep and made me laugh and weep. This memoir has a great warmth and an intensity and honesty that is rare and the writing is exceptional

—— Jamie Byng , Herald

Winterson’s unconventional and winning memoir wrings humor from adversity as it describes her upbringing by a wildly deranged mother

—— New York Times

It is in laying the truth bare in this unflinchingly honest and gripping memoir that Winterson really seems to find self-acceptance, love and even happiness

—— Yvonne Cassidy , The Gloss
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