Author:Mira Kirshenbaum
How do you know when it's time to leave a relationship? When do fixable issues become unavoidable barriers? And how to you put your self-worth first?
Brilliantly incisive, witty and extremely informative, Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay is the essential companion to every person needs when navigating love and relationships.
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'This book empowers you to make changes in your life for the better' 5***** Reader Review
'This book put all my relationship doubts into perspective. I really believe it has saved my marriage!' 5***** Reader Review
'Absolutely brilliant book for anyone struggling to make sense of their relationship' 5***** Reader Review
'This isn't just a book, it's a whole series of top-expert counselling sessions' 5***** Reader Review
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Every relationship has its ups and downs. But when problems do arise, so often we can't find the way forward - or worse, we accept those issues as part of daily life.
In this insightful and thought-provoking guide, internationally renowned therapist Mira Kirshenbaum dissects common (and not so common) relationship issues in a clear and simple way.
Above all, she will empower you to make the crucial decision:
Are these problems worth working on together, and if so - how?
Or are they a sign that you should put yourself first and leave?
Empowering and eye-opening, Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay is not just about deciding to leave relationships - it's about helping you to realise what is worth fighting for.
Charged with emotion . . . a vivid portrait of the human capacity for meanness, malice - and love'
—— Jung ChangFalling Leaves is a terrible and riveting family history . . . It is also a story about endurance and the cost it can exact . . . gripping'
—— Caroline Moorehead , Daily TelegraphAn illuminating account of the destructive nature of family relationships set against a backdrop of China in change
—— Phillip Knightley , Mail on SundayA light burns in the book that is never extinguished . . . [it is] an act, not of vengeance or bitterness, but of catharsis
—— Trevor Fishlock , Sunday TelegraphThe pain of so much emotional abuse leaps from every page . . . the most amazing aspect of this story is that Adeline managed to survive . . . and emerge triumphant . . . compelling'
—— Daily Mail , Val HennessyI am still haunted by Mah's memoir . . . Riveting. A marvel of memory. Poignant proof of the human will to endure
—— Amy TanIt is difficult to put into words the importance of this book. I felt it in my heart. I carried it with me, I think I always will. Jones has written the book we desperately needed
—— Daisy JohnsonMatrescence took me on a journey of reminescence through my own pregnancies and early years of motherhood, eliciting wry recognition, surprise at new evidence and insight, and gratitude for a work that really sees what it is to mother
—— Clare ChambersA beautiful contemplation of the extraordinary yet ordinary metamorphosis that adult humans undergo as they become mothers ... I was entranced ... Matrescence is a passionate and powerful maternal roar for change
—— Gaia VinceHypnotic, fascinating and long overdue. I am so glad it exists. A gift of a book and told beautifully.
—— Laura DockrillMatrescence is the book I've been waiting for. It feels like a gift. Radical, questioning and profound, it urges us to recognise and honour the many transformations of motherhood. With the deepest compassion for her fellow mothers, Lucy Jones shows us how contemporary society stacks the odds against them and calls us to imagine new ways of parenting which care for and support those at its heart
—— Liz BerryYou'll marvel, wince and want to take to the streets after reading Lucy Jones' sweeping and courageous multidisciplinary survey of the motherlands. I wish we'd read it before we had our kid. (Mother) nature read in truth and awe
—— Tom MustillI was challenged, comforted, educated and nourished by this book ... It is the single most powerful, life-changing, heartachingly healing thing I have been given ... The kind of book we must ensure every one of us reads
—— Kerri ní DochartaighA beautiful, intelligent book that is as tender and moving as it is demanding and urgent. There is something insightful and original in the way Lucy Jones seamlessly combines the analytical with the emotional, and it is an absolutely essential new addition to the literature of mothering and parenthood
—— Clover StroudThis book should be a must-read for pretty much everyone. We don't talk about the hidden realities of the biological, social and psychological effects of matrescence nearly enough. Thank you, Lucy Jones, for changing that
—— Dr Jodi PawluskiFascinating
—— Henry Mance (Twitter)Dazzling... Matrescence cements Jones' place as one of the most talented nonfiction writers we have. It really is *astonishingly* good
—— Oli Franklin-Wallis (Twitter)Matrescence is going to set mothers’ worlds alight. Finally, someone has properly expressed what the process of becoming a mother does to women: their sense of self and their brains. We all owe her a debt because it wasn’t just in our heads
—— Emma Barnett , RedJones writes like a novelist, capturing wild swings of emotion, doubt, the adoration of a new baby, and (always) the tension between what she thinks is expected of her and the pressure of her own mixed-up feelings
—— Daily MailMatrescence is a wild and beautiful book, a blend of memoir, science, psychoanalytical thinking and nature writing with a poetic sensibility and a strong sense of political purpose
—— New Statesman *Best Books of the Summer*Engaging and sensitive … Matrescence is an important work
—— Naomi Stadlen , JUNO Magazine